me n a friend from work hooked up while she had a boyfriend. now im not a jerk at all, im a good guy whose feelings and emotions took over him. we never slept with each other. but im in love with her. her boyfriend actually likes me! and she won't tell him about us cuz she doesnt wanna see either of us get hurt. i still love her deeply as a friend as well. is it wrong of me to be just a friend knowing what we did was wrong? like i said ive never been a jerk to her, we both felt mutual that it was innocent and @ this point im pretty much just a friend
2007-04-29 09:53:23 · 11 answers · asked by rudder214 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
me n a friend from work hooked up while she had a boyfriend. now im not a jerk at all, im a good guy whose feelings and emotions took over him. we never slept with each other. but im in love with her. her boyfriend actually likes me! and she won't tell him about us cuz she doesnt wanna see either of us get hurt. i still love her deeply as a friend as well. is it wrong of me to be just a friend knowing what we did was wrong? like i said ive never been a jerk to her, we both felt mutual that it was innocent and @ this point im pretty much just a friend to her. we've bene there for each other through rough times in the past year but should i feel guilty that i was built upon what we did?
2007-04-29 10:33:48 · update #1
If you're just a friend you have no problem.
2007-04-29 09:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she didn't tell him because she doesn't want to see either of you guys hurt!!!
HAHAHA!!! Is that the lie she fed you? You are right you aren't the jerk, she is! She doesn't want to be hurt and she doesn't want him to be hurt. YOU aren't even a concern. If she didn't want you to be hurt then she would have never allowed things to extend beyond friendship!
If you can handle just being friends then do so, but don't smile in his face and love his girl behind his back. That isn't right!
2007-04-29 17:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a girl who tricks your b/f into thinking your freindship is innocent when it isnt and would do this to HIM behind YOUR back.Think of how he would feel if he knew what youve just told us. Iis THIS the kind of woman you want to have children with?Not me.Dump her sorry butt and find a decent woman who isnt attached.
2007-04-29 17:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a jerk, Poaching another mans booty, you probably deserve the beating you are going to get. I know I would give you a beatting and I think if someone poached your girl?
Bad beat buddy
2007-04-29 17:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Hootie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you can't control what happened in the past. Right now all you have to worry about is it never happening again, and you guys having a good friendship.
2007-04-29 16:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Time will tell Wait and see. Don't get too hasty! Love will outlast, any fling. Let it go, it will come back to be free."
2007-04-29 16:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by spawanee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel if she wants you she'll tell you if not then forget her and find a better person
2007-04-29 17:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by charitydowling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've done all the damage control you can do. Leave them alone, pretend it never happened.
2007-04-29 17:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by larry m♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you're in love with her? and i mean really sure.
tell her boyfriend. he needs to know. period.
she can decide whether to choose between you or her boyfriend (if he will take her back).
2007-04-29 16:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by xfraaann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not hang around any longer she is enjoying all the attention,find someone else--a girl of your own, good luck.--x
2007-04-29 16:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋