How valid is it to claim that most men are heterosexuals, when........?

Question

Background:

Some people ------ which includes a minority but very loud group of 'true' heterosexuals and some 'gay' identified males, and some women ------ make the claim that most men are heterosexuals and react aggressively when shown evidence to the contrary.

The minority of males who are 'true' exclusive heterosexuals claim that since they haven't gone through any pressure to be exclusively heterosexual, no one does. And so they claim that being exclusive heterosexual is the majority....... and thus 'straight'.

They claim, people are what they say they are.

How reasonable is this claim, when:

1. The society exerts such extreme pressures on men to be exclusively heterosexual,

2. The consequences of not being (exclusively) heterosexual is so negative and extreme for men,

3. The real men, the majority of straights are disempowered to claim their same-sex needs.

I'm only defining heterosexuality as a constant, and exclusive sexual need for women.

Please don't give the 'reproduction' crap because you don't have to be exclusively heterosexual to reproduce.

And all those who want to reply by saying "youre' gay", "you're gay", well, I am not gay and it is in any case not about me or you!

And Christians........ well god save this earth from them!

Well, in my opinion for those who take on a 'gay' identity it is not a choice for multiple reasons, not all pertaining to sexuality.

But for the rest of us, it is SURELY a choice, but not one that is a free and fair one. It is like we are forced to make one choice over the other or face the consequences. Besides there is heavy advertising.


Only queers are gays, and exclusive heterosexuals fit in the definition of Queer.

Btw, that's an old trick for discouraging people from participating in such discussions. Thrusting your denigrated definitions on people. That is why the forces of heterosexualisation created those definitions.

You're QUEER by the way!

The above response is of course for 5dupits!

Answer 1

"3. The real men, the majority of straights are disempowered to claim their same-sex needs."

And just what would those same-sex need be? I can fulfill them without being sexually involved with another man.