that takes away your will, your enlightement in life, your freedom?
like a cat playing with a mouse?
the person gets to you so much and lye awake thinking about them...and worry they might squash you and have power over your life?
tell me your experiences.
2007-04-29 09:01:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
and it makes you feel like your not an individual, you have this leech on you...
2007-04-29 09:02:20 · update #1
No i just got away from her, she was so draining and she didn't really treat me as a person who has its own needs. More like a mother daughter relationship, like having a big baby squashing you with its greed. aah its horrible dont want to think about it!!!!
2007-04-29 09:14:04 · update #2
when you start acting like them that's when it's really scary...
2007-04-29 09:17:41 · update #3
the type that thinks the reason why you get away from her is because you want to prove your better but in reality you just want to get away!!!! and never see her again!
2007-04-29 09:22:38 · update #4
Yeah I had a mate like that called cho seung-hui but because sometimes I felt like shooting him I kept away from him and lost touch. I often wonder what he's like now because he lost all his friends.
2007-04-29 09:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Serious Dude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Celestine Prophecy books say we all play control dramas. Because we have cut ourselves off from the Source of Life. And play these games to manipulate other peoples energies. Of course some people are worse than others.
The dramas are;
The Intimidator, that screams and yells.
The Interrogator, that keeps asking questions till they find something to use against us.
The Poor Me, who puts us on a guilt trip.
And The Aloof, that gives us the silent treatment.
These are all designed to cause a "sympathetic reaction" in humans. Where we "return" energy to them to be used, and it drains us.
2007-04-29 09:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by Hermes Trismegistus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people need to be off loaded asap, I have a sister who is the same, do not get sucked in!!. They will let you go to hell and back for them, but as soon as you say no once, you will be all the b******s under the sun. I have cut all ties, thirty four years of being at her beck and call is enough. Get away form the person you know you are wasting your time and life on them!!!
2007-04-29 09:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by helen b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes-when I was younger. But as I got more experience I came to realize those people are manipulators and like to suck your life out. I play a much better game now and give more than I get. I am the sqasher of users. I get the feeling that you think or try to be a user and think it's cool to screw people around. You will always get yours in the end. . . and you won't be liking it as much as you thought you would.
2007-04-29 09:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if we are thinking about the same person?
The solution is "understanding" as described by the Bible in the book of Job: ch 28 vs 28
Caution, it may take a few days or more thinking about it to comprehend the meaning, but it is well worth the effort to get understanding. Understanding will become a friend and help you the rest of your life.
Please forgive me for sounding like a grandfather or uncle but that is what I am.
2007-04-29 09:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes. It can be either someone who is just completely negative and drains your energy because of their lack of personality and inmaturity and you feel suicidal like you wanna jump off a cliff or you have someone who who in a way puts himself or herself as your responsibility and makes you feel bad that you have to allow them to leech on you. I once knew people like I described above. Don't want to go into detail but it feels either suicidal or stressful - big time head f*ck!
2007-04-29 09:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The type of person you are referring to is similar to a Dementor from Harry Potter who sucks all the goodness from you. Also known as a syphon. Life is full of sad and miserable folk who love nothing better than to inflict their stories of woe on you. Get rid of them out of your life and be happy.
2007-04-29 09:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes:
No matter what happens to you something worse has happened to them.
You try to be nice but that is wrong so you are horrible and that has the same effect.
No matter what you do they will not leave you alone.
She says I am trying to ruin her life but I am not doing anything. I'm just trying to live my life without her in it. She has everything. I have nothing but she still wants to take that from me.
2007-04-29 09:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
unfortunately. last year we were best friends, but she started to become a ***** and horrible and she harrasses me and stuff and i hate it.
2007-04-29 09:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
it was a close relative
a blood brother
don't get me started
but if you must, you know, get me started, e-me
2007-04-29 09:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋