I do plan to fill out my plans ,but I just haven't got around to doing them...why do I do this?...how do I change?
2007-04-29 08:37:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You may be fearful of failure, or a procrastinator, or just plain lazy. Also, urgent things tend to override important things. Welcome to the human race.
2007-04-29 08:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gee Wye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do this too, and i am terrible at it. There just always seems to be something else to do, when there is already so much that needs to be done. then when i feel like doing something mentally, i hurt too much physically and then i have to go to sleep, and then by the time i wake up again i have other stuff to do.
to be honest it is going to be really hard to try and change. You have to be comitted, then sometimes you just have to go and do it, avoid all things that could go wrong. save up money and then take a long vacation to get your life on track. I did and it helped me. Good Luck!
2007-04-29 16:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by TABITHA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep talking about them because maybe if somebody heard you, they would fulfill your plans. You want someone with insight and advice to help you meet your goals without having to work so hard yourself. Spend your time doing rather than talking and you would be surprised just how far you would get.
2007-04-29 15:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by letgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said that you would do X by today and you haven't done it then, you have lied.
Talking about what you want is also a way to spend time, it is also a way to spend time with another in conversation.
I rarely listen to what people want. I look at the results.
2007-04-29 17:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a liar just a procrastinator...I'd empty your schedule....only take on a few things till you can get in the habit of actually doing those things then add more.
2007-04-29 16:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by † H20andspirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
procrsastinater of the worst sort - you cant even admit it. lol. its probably because you're waiting for 'something big' to happen to you that will make you think, I MUST GET A MOVE ON! well, take this as your wake up call...
2007-04-29 17:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the source is fear and not believing in yourself. you've reaffirmed that believe long enough. it's time to find evidence to support who you really are. what i mean is, get out into the world, experience life and teach yourself that you can do what you think you can't.
2007-04-29 15:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by lifeoutsidethecircle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋