What do you think of having sex early in life like still in high school?

Answer 1

Though you are mature enough to make the decision to have sex or not, it doesn't mean that you are mature enough to deal with the emotional aspect of that kind of intimacy. You obviously have some doubts about doing it, so you probably aren't ready.
There is a lot to be said for an individual who stands by their conviction to remain chaste until marriage. You will garner more respect from your future husband or wife.
There are too many reasons NOT to have sex at this point.
Stay wise and make good choices for your future.

Answer 2

Regardless of what conservative groups say, most people don't have sex in high school. Just look at all of the people that you know/knew, how many of them were geeks, nerds, losers, or where just plain too obsessed with whatever the latest fad was to have sex with anybody.

When you're in high school it's just hormones, you rip your clothes off, do the horizontal tango, then it's over. When you're older it's a lot more involved, it lasts longer, and you don't have to worry about your folks finding out

Answer 3

having sex comes with responsibilities, so if you think you are ready to handle them, go ahead. I wouldn't tho, why mess up your life so early with probable pregnancy scares, Vd transmissions and all that kind of crappy stuff.
It'd be great if you could find a person you really know you love and then have sex with her. If you do it the other way around, you may risk confusing one for the other.

Answer 4

What do I think of? How sad I am that I did it. Sex is made for women and men (or varying combinations). It is not made for girls and boys.

If someone gave you the most precious, valuable, irreplaceable possession they owned and asked you to take care of it for them, you wouldn't give it away to the first person who said it was pretty and asked if they could have it.

You would respect the person's wishes and probably feel proud that it was you they chose to protect it.

Virginity is a one time gift. It is the most personal, precious, valuable gift you could ever have.

You don't say how old you are but I'm figuring you're in high school.
It doesn't matter whether you're a girl or a guy. Sex without love is just a way to burn calories.

Sex with love, real long lasting, committed love...is what all the songs and poems are about.

There are plenty of ways to satisfy a boy or girl friend without giving up your virginity. Please, take it from someone who lives with the regret of giving away my soul to a jerk. As soon as he realized that I was a virgin until he used me, he never talked to me again.

Save it, please. Have something to look forward to.

Answer 5

Most do it during high school, but female generally have a higher % rate of getting pregnant from age 13-14, then going up till age 25 then drops. If you got protection covered 100%, go for it. But just be sure you're ready for the outcome, also she might not be the person you end up with later. If you think you won't feel guilty for stealing her virginity then go.

Answer 6

Well I don't like it.... but that's cause I don't believe in sex before marriage. There are just things that can happen and then you can get the girl pregnant, even if you wear a condom. It could be to small or too big and can slip off and then you can get her pregnant. Also, Its something grown ups should do, not teens

Answer 7

In a way it is lucky. In another way it is something that could mess up the rest of your life. You are jumping into the deep end of the pool without much practice. Dealing with those strong emotions and the risks of disease and pregnancy is something that is really better to save for later after you have spent more time in the shallow end of the pool

Answer 8

It is a bad idea. I feel you need to be mature when you do it. Sex is not just the act itself, it means sooo much more than just the act. Even if you don't feel that way, give yourself a chance to make a reasonable decision. When you were a child you thought toys were most importandt perhaps you don't feel the same now. Change happens allow yourself to maure.

Answer 9

Experience.

Not experience with sex (although you do gain that) but experience with life.

I'm not against it, experimenting is part of life, you just have to be smart about it and use protection and if something goes wrong, be smart enough to handle it in a mature matter.

Don't get a chick pregnant and then leave her, it's immature and irresponsible. Be happy and enjoy life, do whatever makes you happy. But, don't screw yourself over.

Answer 10

Well in a full plain guys view, if the girls hot enough go for it. Other then that in a realistic view, it really has to be a self determination of yourself. Like I have a lot of friends who have done that stuff, but I haven't mainly because I just haven't found the right person yet. I mean it's something our human bodies supposuvly need, but make the determination yourself.