he can't see our little defects but we can't watch his thing either...
2007-04-29 07:18:20 · 24 answers · asked by Sonia 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
LIGHTS ON . . . I get off looking at things and never notice "little defects". Are you sure all women have those?
2007-05-06 08:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say off with a whole mess of sexy candles everywhere. You can see enough with the light they give off and the flickers of the light are so sexy. I always light all my candles but my bf thinks it's stupid. I really don't think the guy even cares. If he isyour boyfriend he is not thinking about all your little defects. Trust me he is enjoying the sex. Feeling the dingy is enough...I don't have to see it. But sometimes that adds some satisfaction too. So it's up to you. I personally am very self-conscious about my body and I prefer the lights off but I have learned that my bf doesn't care about my defects. He just wants to get down and so I'm getting better about having my body seen.
2007-04-29 15:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both! At different times and for different moods. And let's be honest, sometimes the lights are off see we don't have to see his little defects either.
2007-05-06 17:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the way I look at it. it shouldnt matter, I am a fat person, and am very self concious. but when I have sex with my partner we can go either way. If you ahve to ahve sex with the lights off fine, the first time and I mean the very first time, I had sex I wanted to the lights off, it came with the fact that It was the first time I was shy, and what not. if you are going to ahve sex it should be when you are comfortable enough to share your body with that other person, if the person "loves" you then he/she will not care if you are a little over weight, or any small imperfections. if you are sharing your body with your partner, then you should be sure you are comfortable with them, and not care what you like, know that they think you are beautiful. If you didnt turn them on, if they did not find you attractive,(and i dont mean by looks, beautiful people are on the inside, and everyone ahs attractive features,) they would not have you in the bedroom or wherever, with your clothes off, and wanting to make love.
2007-05-03 14:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cupcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have some nice red lights on in the bedroom or blue ones making love with mood lighting is the new thing
2007-05-04 16:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by ronaco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have nothing with the light one; you have to see the condon on the night stand, anyway. I'm size 3 now. I was an 18 in '03.
2007-05-03 00:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that any human being has physical defects. We all look the way our creator wants us too. What you may see as flaws might just be what turns on your partner the most. I like the lights on or the sun shining so I can see my beautiful partner in all his glory.
2007-04-29 14:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I like to have a candle lit. It gives off a nice soft light. I sometimes want to see what's going on, but I can always close my eyes, if I just want to enjoy the moment.
2007-04-29 14:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by EarthGirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Candle light relaxes and is romantic.
Enough bright to see what you want and enough dark to keep the curiosity alive.
Need to care little for peeping tom.
General golden appearance.
Yes, candle light.
2007-05-01 02:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by dipakrashmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lights off with the candles lit!!
2007-05-05 22:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋