I usually get up for work at 5:20 am or so and so on my days off, it is not unusual for me to be up really early in the morning. I have vacuming, dishes, trash and walks for 2 dogs.
I feel paralyzed by these 2 bodies sleeping in my house. Whats the deal? What can I do to tell them they are in my space and to get the hell out of bed?
2007-04-29 06:54:47 · 20 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why would someone still be in bed at that time, is it because they partied all night or did they work? That would be the difference on how you handle the situation. If in fact they were partying , then don't stop your daily routine, if you have a stereo turn it on. You're not the rude one, and if they are friends they would get that you have things that need to be done!!! If they don't who cares...
If on the other hand they do live with you and they worked late you must also have respect for them and try to do other things that you have been needing to do until they are awake.
2007-04-29 07:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by blu_id_irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,First of all, do they live there too, or are they just visiting. If they are just visiting, surely they will leave soon and you can get back to your normal routine. If they live there, do they help with the bills? If the do, then perhaps you can put your housecleaning off for a while or do the least noisy things until they get up. They live there and deserve a certain amount of consideration. If you can't deal with their sleeping habits, then maybe you should look for your own place. If they don't pay bills, then go about your normal routine as if they were not there. If they can not deal with your sleeping habits then they perhaps should find someone else to mooch off of
2007-04-29 07:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by The PENsive Insomniac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the 2 people live there? Why are they paralyzing you from what you normally do? That doesn't make any sense,really. How does them being in bed affect YOU?
2007-04-29 06:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by dog8it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh thats so annoying, when I lived at my parents house I hated when they had people over. Just do what you normally do & if they have anything 2 say tell them 2 get their lazy asses up! Call the house phone on your cell & say its 4 them then just hang up lol <3 Melanie myspace.com/thatspoiledbella
2007-04-29 06:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Brunette Barbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them just like you told us, that this is your space, and that they need need to get the Hell out of bed.
2007-04-29 06:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start vacuuming in the hall! It should be loud enough to wake them up. My dad used to do that when I was a teenager - I hated it :)
Just start doing some of the things you usually do, they should get the message.
2007-04-29 06:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by binemaeuschen22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 01:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who are they for one and tell them to get their lazy buts out of bed. if you're up on your day off cleaning they should be helping. i would be leaving daily chores for them to do,not to mention if they're adults they need to have jobs instead of laying around.put your foot down now or they will continue to walk all over you. best wishes.
2007-04-29 07:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and vaccumm around them crank the music up and enjoy your day off!!
2007-04-29 06:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn on the Vacuum um!! bang some pots and pans.
2007-04-29 06:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋