2007-04-28 23:36:16 · 4 answers · asked by Gay Man 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Everything is subjective. If it offends you, then they are terms of abuse and should NOT be tolerated.
Even if they don't offend you, I would think someone would have to know you pretty damned well to speak to you in those terms.
Sandy
2007-04-28 23:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person. I have a friend that totally thinks of the word 'queer' as her badge of honor. One male friend of mine is a total 'queen' and he loves it. BUT, he's the type that sometimes wears a full face of makeup, fishnets, high heels and corsets that expose his hairy back. He's not a cross dresser, just very dramatic sometimes.
It's only abusive when used in a negative way. I really don't have any friends that are homophobic so it's never an issue with us. It's always strangers that scream 'F**king queer!' out of car windows. That's when it's abusive in my world.
2007-04-28 23:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Pico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both pretty feminine if you ask me.
2007-04-28 23:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are really stupid. you probably have huge family issues. keep it up.
2007-04-28 23:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by STEPHEN 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋