I've known her for a long time, at least 2 years.
She wants to have sex with me now. She actually said it to me.
She is an asian TS. I don't know what to do. This is my first time being with a TS.
One side of me is saying "yes" for a new experience but the other side of me is saying "no" because she WAS a guy once. And that might makes me a "not-straight guy."
I'm kind of worried about her STDs status too. Since I don't really know about her past. Maybe... she has some STDs.
And I wonder if she has her penis removed or not. If it's not, then it's pretty much going to freak me out.
Somebody tell me their experience with a TS.
Should I have sex with her?, or not?
2007-04-28 23:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by S2uNonlyUS2 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If she is a T-woman, she wasn't a guy, she was born with a masculine body, it's a birth defect, her brain has always been feminine, and you aren't going to be considered gay or bi, she is a woman. You wonder if she has a penis, well, ask her, I can understand your concern, and seen that she wants to have sex with you and you're str8, there is no problem if you ask
2007-04-29 00:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have many questions thst u need to ask to HER not us..STD, sexual past, the penis thing..are all remaining question marks...Besides the idea of you inquiring your straightness under this circumstance is sickening...(What if you are not straight..?? And maybe she is not a woman at all..?) If you start such sort of questions, u never get to nowhere..You dont seem much like an open person so maybe you'd better not drive yourself randomly into that relation with all that confusion in the mind...You need to settle your mind first..
2007-04-29 00:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will actually find her more attentative than a genetic female. Having sex with a TS is a real turn on. One can explore their true nature. Once you are in the intimate moments you'll be surpised at how wonderful it all is.She wants you which is a good sign, that means your going ot have a good time.
GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-29 07:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by CheryllDianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIV does in fact show symptoms and the symptoms usually appear withing a week or ten days of infection. The symptoms are usually flu-like and are usually ignored. Swollen lymph glands are one of the symptoms. However, HIV is not easily spread by oral sex. I would be more concerned about hepatitis or some other STD. By all means go to the health department and get screened, especially for hepatitis.
2016-05-21 05:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her first. The number one rule in this day and age is to know who you have sex with...know their sexual history and they know yours.
As far as body parts, you both need to discuss this openly and how it might impact you...and her if you "freak out" if she's pre-op.
Get rid of the stereotype of orientation in this case. It doesn't exist. Do you even like her?
2007-04-29 01:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by gone fishing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to find out then ask her. But even if she has a penis and you two decide to have sex then that doesn't make you gay. Just ask her it won't hurt anybody.
2007-04-28 23:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by xesemesa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As to STD's can you ask her to bring you a doctor's statement? You can go and get one, too, to show her so that everything is kosher.
2007-04-29 00:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋