Just can't ever love him enough...told him for years that I AM happy...but I can't MAKE him happy. Emotional abuse...foulest degradation and disrespect but then LOVES me and is sorry. 15 years of this...maybe length of 6months at a time when things seem ok...but then he can't hold it in anymore that I haven't given him enough attention or enough sex or whatever it will be. He's never gotten over birth of our 13 y/o son (original source of ongoing abuse) and during our recent 2 yr separation had sex numerous times with my married step-sister. Denied it when I told him I didn't think I could take him back if he had...now after 6 months back together admitted it. Has a problem with me not wanting much to do with him (being happy despite him and cordial)...acting out because I won't have sex with him and its been an WHOLE 3 WEEKS!! She's well-known to be one of "try to f** your man kinda gal"...we've known she's slept with many skanks like her and then he did this? I'm disgusted...
2007-04-28
18:47:28
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➔ Psychology