Why is there a doble standard when it comes to what you say ?

Question

If a man is musically inclined and writes a love song and even dedicates it to a woman and even profits from it. It is considered romantic or cool. Like that song by the Rolling Stones; " You will be mone all mine... I will be your Knight in shinning armour " or the one by Def Leppard; " I will be always be two steps behind you.. " Now, let's turn off the music,keep the lyrics,drop the bands title and lead singers name and have a common man go up to someone he likes and say it to them. Then,it's creepy if he were to include those lyrics in a card attached to flowers to a female co worker or woman he hardly knows. Yet, when the song comes on the radio and inspires a man to be more romantic and open with his felings. It's alsmost as bad as murder if he softens up and opens up a little and says the very same words to a woman.
The man is conditioned by the mass media to be more romantic,softer,gentler,in touch with his feelings. Then he try's and he's stomped into the chest. Why ?

Answer 1

I think that it 's a bit shocking on a personal level because it's not common to experience that. Also, a song is a public offering. It's saying things in a indirect way....it's not the same as a person, standing in front of you, saying similar things. Personal interaction like that can be scary for some folks. Sounds like you're a true romantic---don't worry, the right girl for you WILL appreciate your romantic offerings (song, poem, or otherwise).

Answer 2

the first rule is never do lyrics in verbal communication it is mathematically impossible you see one you sing and the other you say or it is written with no melody!
sorry you cant nor should you ever attempt this again or never try this for you shall definitely fail doing so!

Answer 3

"I always say I love you, and all you do is slap me with a restraining order" They just don't write songs like that anymore.

Answer 4

yea, some black people practice it all the time.