My friend has been in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend, they've been goin out for 6 months now, he started abusing her three weeks ago, i found out 6 days ago from my friend.
I told her i was going to tell a trusted adult and her parents. Her excat words were "no! if you tell anyone, i swear i will kill you" and she had a serious face too!!! I dont want to mess with her and i cant tell if she's playing or that just came out her mouth but i dont want to get hurt or involved in this.
i want to tell but im scared my friend might actuallly kill me.
wat do i do?!!!!!
2007-04-28 17:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Surfer Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay well one thing you can do if you go to highschool or even middle school tell your guidance counselor because its very private and they will nto tell anyone, but tell them she also threatned to hurt you that way they will be extra safe about the situation. Otherwise tell the police or something like that because they cant tell anyone or anything what someone said. Nobody should be treated like that tell someone before she gets badly hurt.
2007-04-29 01:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by shesnogoood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, then her parents and the police. This is very serious. Do it soon. Many lives might be at stake here. Including the lives that such people as herself and her BF might create and rear in their abusive image.
She is bullying you as has been done to her. Be the voice of reason--be brave--and stop it. It is the only way.
By the way, your friendship with her is--and probably should be--finished. Let this last action you take be your most compassionate. And the right one.
2007-04-28 17:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her tell someone, she may hate you for the rest of her life, but also tell the adult that she threatened you, so you can feel safe. She may not thank you now, but who knows how far this abuser will go!
2007-04-28 17:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend who would threaten you just because you want to help her may not be your friend. Friends give each other advice. You listen and think. If the advice is a good one you do it. If it isn't, you don't. It is not a do or die affair. If she made a comment about killing you for trying to save her life then you shouldn't be friends with her.
2007-05-01 04:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by nathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, i dont she'd really kill you, but who would joke around about being abused? I cant know for sure, but i think that she is just frightened right now and she doesnt know what to do herself. You should be there for her and tell an adult that can help.
2007-04-28 17:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is over 18 stay out of it not much you or her parents can make her do but if she is a minor do tell cause she needs to get out that relationship. Then I would just keep my distance for awhile.
2007-04-28 17:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by d2347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was she serious about this when she told you?? this is something really serious. u are probably scared and dont know wat to do, but you dont want ur friend to get hurt. what i would do is tell someone who you trust, when she finds out you told someone she will be mad, stay away from her and let her cool down. maybe in the end she will thank you. but only you know what to do, cus you are the one in this situation.
2007-04-28 17:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by prettygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, threatening to call your mom is a little ... ten year old. Why wouldthey be scared of your M.O.M.? Just ignore them and go to the other side of the house or stay at your friends or sumthing.
2016-05-21 04:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey she knows she is being abused, she is smart enough to know that is wrong. If she puts up with it, she has no one to blame but herself. She should not threaten you for trying to help her. I would butt out and let her and him handle it. She will have a bruise or something and someone will find out. You tried to help, don't feel bad.
2007-04-28 17:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont get involved if he hits her tell your b/f or a trusted male adult
2007-04-28 17:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by poony!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋