I NEED HELP NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do?

Question

Ok I just had sex with my gf abd right before we had sex, I didnt know that she torn a whole on the tip of the condom. Well I nutted in her and after we had sex, I took a shower to get ready to see my mother. Well I was in there for about 25mins and when I got out of the shower, my gf was profit up on the pollow and I was like what are you doing, So then she told me that she torn a whole on the tip of the condom. And it was a really big whole. enough for a lot of sprem to get her pregnant. Then she told my that she stole the condom while i was in the shower and she put the condom in her. shes about to start her period in 2wks and she is ovulating NOW. will she get pregnant. After sex she got up could sperm came out of her then? after what I have said, can she get pregnant? NEED HELP FAST. I DONT WONT TO BE A DAD =( help my plez

Answer 1

OK. This is common. (Not the part about her ripping a hole in the condom, but a hole being in the condom around the time of ovulation.)

If the condom "broke" there is approximately 20%-25% chance she could get pregnant if she ovulates.

Most likely, pregnancy won't occur.

However, to reliably prevent pregnancy, have her call her Gynecologist and ask for Plan-B. If she does not have a gynecologist, call the local hospital and ask for the Ob/Gyn on call and ask him/her for a prescription.

Plan B is birth control which can be taken after sex. It can prevent ovulation, slow fallopian tube motility and make fertilization less likely. It can also make the uterine lining less likely to allow a pregnancy to implant. It won't cause an abortion (disrupt an established pregnancy).

A lot of people have concerns about Plan B because they think it causes abortion, but it doesn't. It prevents pregnancy in a similar manner to breast-feeding, which is nature's birth control.

If the pharmacy's where you are don't have Plan-B, she can take oral contraceptive tablets. (She'll need 5 tablets with 20-microgram ethinyl-estradiol now, then 5 more tablets 12 hours later.) She has up to 72 hours (3 days) after sex to take these. If she has to take birth control, she might also ask for some medicine to prevent nausea. You'd hate for her to throw up the medicine.

Good luck.

Answer 2

I would pray that it doesn't happen and then never see her again. She had no right to do that. She is just a spider trying to trap you and you don't need someone that is so selfish. If she is pregnate I wouldn't want her to be the mother of my child so I would try to get full custody or put the child up for adoption for people who don't put their wants before others. I'm sorry this she-child put you in this position. I'll pray for the best to come out of this. Just don't marry her if she is pregnate, that will ruin both of your lives and the childs. Marriage is not always the answer to all the problems in the world. Just be there for the child if you decide to keep it.

Answer 3

Alright, if she is older than 18 she can get the morning after pill at the pharmacy (asking for it and showing ID) or doctor. Tell her to take it the sooner the better! Up to 5 days but do it FAST! If she is not over 18, she needs to get to her doctor for the morning after pill or if there needs to be a secret mission, go to the Planned Parenthood Center! They will gladly take her in. Please do it fast!

Answer 4

Holy cow! That was a very sneaky and underhanded thing for her to do. Obviously, you can never trust her again. I think it would be in your best interest to leave her.

Pregnancy at this point is very possible, however. If she does become pregnant, be there for your child. I don't think you should stay with her, but I do believe that you should be a dad to that poor child who had no fault in her dirty, little trick.

Answer 5

There are several things she can do to stop the pregnancy at this point. She does need to see a doctor though to get access to them and it is her choice.

I sympathise with you that she has done this without discussing it with you. If she wants to carry on with the pregnancy there's probably not a lot you can do to stop her. Unfortunately, you may need legal advice if it gets to that given that this situation could become volatile.

Best of luck.

Answer 6

She can get pregnant, standing or jumping or anything wont do anything. There is nothing u can do other than forcing her to go and get Morning After pill.
The way u described it, she wants to get pregnant? Either way, all u can do is wait and find out. Its all on her now.

Answer 7

You shouldn't be with a person like that !! She is really STUPID! She could get pregnant but there is a small chance her stunt don't work ! I hope your lucky this time and it don't work for her !! SO don't ever have sex with her agian!! You can't trust her ! tell her its over and she can raise her baby!! that she took on herself to get !!! But really, if she is pergnant later on you can still be a dad , it;s not the babys fault what she done !! But hopefully she's not !!!!

Answer 8

your girl friend is a freak. that is just as bad as being raped. you need to pray to God that she is not pregnant and if she isn't RUN!!!! I understand that you don't want any children but if she does get pregnant-don't be another dead beat dad

Answer 9

Yes, she certainly could get pregnant. There's no guarantee that she will, but there's certainly no guarantee that she won't. Wow. You two need to talk this over; this is tough.

Answer 10

lets hope it won't happen =you should never have done this in the first place=and why does she want to get pregnant anyway