my mum cught her red handed going through my things and took a dvd as my mum walked in the room she shoved it up the back of her top and wen my mum was taking her case(she was sstayin @ my house) down stairs the dvd fell out!
is she a real friend! she is fun to be with , funny , and used to be trustworthy! can i trust her again?Should i stay friends with her or tottaly blank her out? plz help1
2007-04-28 11:54:54 · 18 answers · asked by ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no and you will never be able to trust her again. even if you stay friends with her but not give her the oppurtinty to steal again she probaly not be your friend anymore
2007-04-28 13:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by aaaaaaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what your tinking ang ask her what she was doing, ask her if her home life is ok?? is she feeling down??
They may be an excuse for her acting like this, she may be emotionally unstable right now!!
If you think there really isn't an excuse for this behavouir tell her, and say i dunno weather i can get my head around this and if i'll really beable to trust her again!
She'll get the message and hopefully she'll apologise, but for a while keep your meetings away form your house, and just start over, if you really don't think this will work out tell her straight and tell her this was a key part in your friendship and if you can't trust her you cna't be frinds!!
Decide carefully and keep looking forwrd and find new friends, making new friends who can help you through this are your REAL friends and they'll stick by you forever!
2007-04-29 05:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by kate w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend, she is a thief and I bet that she wouldn't admit to taking the dvd, but since your mom caught her, she's busted! If I were you, I would remain friends with her. If, somewhere down the road, you think that you can give the friendship a second try, then do that. But for now, just leave her alone. She may steal your house.
2007-04-28 12:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by ..... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a dodgy one. She is a good friend to you, but a good friend would also not steal from you. I think that you need to weigh up the good and bad things that you like about your friend. Is her stealing from you enough to stop being her friend, or is it the case of contently watching her every move when she is in your company!!
I say talk to her and see how she reacts. If she is full of remorse forgive her, but if she acts like it is no big deal and she doe this to everyone...then reconsider how good of a friend she is to you.
Take Care xx
2007-04-28 23:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Darkchild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a friend shes a thief and you need to get rid or she will be doing it again .I had same done to me and she was my cousin and we were very close more like sisters really and she stole from me when i stayed with her for few days .
2007-04-28 22:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by rudd_linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-04-28 15:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Soggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it tell her that she can borrow things from you and that you will let her but she cant just take them. If she does it again you shouldn't really associate yourself with her anymore. Like don't be childish about it and throw a fit be adult and say "I'm sorry I don't feel like we can be friends anymore if you are going to steal from me"
2007-04-28 11:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Remy♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she was any kind of a friend she would not dream of doing this.
I would give her the elbow and find yourself some real friends.
2007-04-28 11:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by crazychick_woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she's not a friend. if she was trying to put it up the back of her top..she's trying to hide something. it would be a different thing if she just looked at it and put it back.
2007-04-28 11:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't seem like a real friend, if she was she would never steal from you.
2007-04-28 12:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋