well to be honest i didnt start thinking about this until recently people have said to me your cousin is a lil light on his feet isnt he? people say things like that about him i usually just say ... now that i think about it years ago when we were like 12 or 13 id say hey jim isnt that a hot girl? and he would just ignore me but maybe hes not gay he has 3 younger sisters maybe he doesnt see women the way i do i have a younger brother so... anyway hes says hes a born again christain and doesnt think about sex ever he says hell have sex with his wife when hes married maybe hes not gay? i dunno
2007-04-28 11:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When people are brought up in a certain environment, it is hard for them to feel as if they can be different than others around them. Because your cousin is a Christian, I am going to assume that he was brought up in a Christian household, and most possibly, a Christian-All American, community. I know people like this... they grow up in a christian household and find it VERY hard to do as they feel. They are scared to come out to themselves, no less to others. Sometimes (and I'm not saying your cousin will do this...) they will marry a woman, only to later on after years of marriage and maybe a couple of kids, they finally realize that this is not what they want and will start persuing sexual relationships with men. This sounds like your cousin to me, but I know nothing about him. If he is gay, I really hope that he has people around him that will encourage him to be himself. There is nothing wrong with him being who God made him to be.
2007-04-28 13:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not allow what they imagine worry you. bypass on about your existence mutually with your head held intense. maximum each kinfolk contained in the international has a cutting-edge or not so distant contained in the previous relative who's gay or bi. Who is time-honored with, the daddy, brother, uncle of one in each of those "so-suggested as" acquaintances merely might want to be gay.
2016-12-05 00:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make?
Straight or gay he will be the same person.
As long as he is not making unwanted advances, it is none of your concern what his sexual preferences might be.
Enjoy his company and be relieved that he is not beating your time with the girls.
Doc Hudson
2007-04-28 11:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds very self disciplined just because he doesn't conform to the mentality of society (sex drugs and girlfriends)doesn't mean he's gay
2007-04-28 11:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by dothejitt3rbug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont jump to conclusions.
he might not be gay, just not into the whole dating scene yet.
if he is though, treat him like any other guy.
they arent diferent at all!
cheers!
2007-04-28 12:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. I have four cousins who are gay/Lesbian.
Now, treat him with dignity and respect and stop fishing for information about him that is none of your business.
2007-04-28 11:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
the first answer is correct,doesnt matter if he is or not.
2007-04-28 11:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so worried about it? let him travel his life how he chooses...
2007-05-02 08:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋