Self esteem can come from doing things and excelling, like getting a hobby, participating in sports, joining fun clubs at school, volunteering, helping out with community events. It's not all about your size or what you look like. Self esteem is about who you are.
2007-04-28 11:19:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Try lifting weights. It will make you stronger and give you some shape to your muscles. The gym teacher should be able to give you some advice. Also, guys at this age might just be jerks. Join a club, volunteer with a nursing home, try Girl Scouts or Boys & Girls Clubs, and you'll meet new people and get some self-esteem. Also, Seven Habits for Highly Effective Teens is a great book to read.
2007-04-28 11:17:51
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answered by Katherine W 7
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Maybe it's just a matter of who you are hanging around with.
It really doesn't sound to me like you had any problem with yourself and your self image until all of this came about with your "so called friends"..
Maybe you should try hanging out with other people, or just slowly break your self away from this little 'thick click'...
So what if you aren't thick??? Sounds to me like your body frame will never be able to handle anything like that anyway.
You sound fine the way you are. You don't have to be like the others to be liked by the others. If these other girls are trying to convince you of that or are making you feel that way then they are NOT your friends.
2007-04-28 11:22:28
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answered by Doodlebug 5
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I have to tell you that there are many guys who like a girl who is your size. I have fallen for a girl who was your size and she is 26. She is an awesome person and is very popular. You might need to find some new friends. Maybe not. Maybe try to become more confident and they might notice you more. I struggle with self esteem issues for other reasons sometimes. It can be hard to become more confident, I know. Also, try not to always focus on yourself. Look for how you can be a friend to others. If your friends treat you bad enough, find some friends who will lift you up. Please don't change who you are. Please don't change who you are.
2007-04-28 11:19:30
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answered by lend322 4
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Maybe you can try to build lean muscle? Look up information on nutrition online, or if you can talk to a nutritionist or doctor. They might have a good exercise and eating plan to achieve that goal. But also be realistic in your goals. Don't expect to look like something your body wasn't designed to look like. If the athletic route doesn't work, just try to take care of your hair, nails, and skin, and dress nicely so that you can look well-put together and call attention to yourself that way.
2007-04-28 11:36:51
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answered by Anonymous
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you're wonderful !! and that i think of you be attentive to it b/c you mentioned you would be fishing for compliments somewhat than insults Aha :) i don't have lots self assurance myself -- so i'm unsure how great of suggestion i supplies you you, yet in line with probability in case you faux to be constructive you will fairly grow to be constructive. I examine that someplace, you faux to be something and additionally you grow to be it, it is like a ideas trick. Even greater proper - get out of your convenience zone, do issues that scare you. in case you're able to do particularly some issues which you think of you are able to't do, and then teach to your self which you're able to do them. then you definately'll start up feeling greater constructive in the direction of different issues ordinarily. additionally one greater element, who needs an elementary existence? My existence completely sucks particularly some the time, yet it is sweet, by using fact the greater i flow in the process the greater I learn. elementary, 'appropriate' lives are not greater proper... and having a lifelike that doesn't make somebody greater proper. attempt to advance an excellent physique of ideas, which will replace your existence I assure.
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answered by bhuwan 4
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you are the way you are im sure you have a great personality put aside your worries and let that personality shine through you will be surprised how much of a turn on guys find a confident not needy girl rather than someone who is all look at me
2007-04-28 11:18:18
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answered by stripeypipey 2
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Maybe there's an underlying issue going on that needs to be addressed. First, you need to accept your body AS IT IS RIGHT NOW. Then you can work toward changing it, if you want to.
2007-04-28 11:19:37
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answered by hanginginthere 1
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as long as your healthy dont try to gain weight ...your fine the way you are.... if you want you can tone but its not necessary. let your personality shine through with new friends if your current ones are not lifting your spirits up. weight should never be an issue, believe that.
Goooood Luckk
2007-04-28 11:41:51
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answered by Anonymous
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first time I ran across this issue try asking your doctor about risperdal it slows down your motabolism I was 140lbs now im 180lbs
2007-04-28 11:20:52
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answered by Anonymous
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