I have a female friend who I got along with very well, Same type of humor and stuff (I work with her) Anyway she just quit talking to me 1 day about 3months ago. I've left her voice mail and texted and emaild her to ask what I did wrong. She refuses to answer any of them. But she did tell another friend she was mad at me and told him why but he won't tell me. He just said it was something stupid. And she told him not to tell me... What should I do now. Because I don't recall doing anything to make her angry...I'm stumped....
2007-04-28 10:01:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i would forget about her. it doesn't sound like she's a very good friend if she won't even tell you what she's mad about! friends get mad at each other all the time, but that's what apologies are for. if she won't accept yours, then fvch her!
2007-04-28 10:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥sweet♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow it off let it slide Start anew. You made an effort according to yr side of it.
Dont makeit a soap opera trying to "get it out of her". That can cause an energy drin on you and a basis for an unhealthy relationship putting all the onus on you to figure out every step of the problems with no effort on her part.
If you really need to you can say something neutral like "I'm sorry you're apparently angry or upset. Im not aware of any actions on my part that would have caused that .I respect you and enjoyed our friendship. If you are more comfortable ending the friendship I will respect that as well."
Dont keep apologizing or asking what did I do if its not apparent and she wont say then it s not worth the effort to keep ingratiating yrself to this person maybe she'll come around perhaps it was a bad mood She'll either get over it or no longer be yr friend and you will find other friends.
2007-04-28 17:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by FoudaFaFa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. You've tried as best you can. Just leave it alone, at least for now.
Sometime in the future you may be in a position to help her out or make her look good in front of the boss.
These things usually blow over given enough time. It does suck that she won't tell you why. It's hard to apologize when you don't know what you've done.
Good luck.
2007-04-28 17:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you have tried to find out from other sources why she no longer talks to you . And tell her someone told you it was something stupid. So ask her to please tell you what stupid thing you did to end your friendship. Let her know you have done so many stupid things you are having a hard time narrowing it down to just one. Let her know it is driving you crazy and you need a response as quickly as possible. Just let her know you want your friend back.
2007-04-28 17:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her a message or write her an e-mail telling her that you are stumped on what happened, and you just want to know what you did. If she still refuses to talk to you, then I say ignore it then, forget her, sounds to me like she is being super immature and ignorant.
2007-04-28 17:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a break for a couple of days and then confront her at work about it face to face. Or just try talking to her like nothing happened if your friend said it was something "stupid". Some "stupid" to us guys is something seroius to women. Maybe she was expecting more than friendshiP?
2007-04-28 17:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by tsailor40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go, you are an adult, and not in high school any longer, this sounds like high school crap.
look she wont tell you, dont press her she will resent you more. if for some reason she comes to her senses, then she will contact you, if not. dont worry about it. Sometimes we have to chalk up a relationship as a loss and move on. (sorry to sound crass, but thats about all you can do).
2007-04-28 17:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by LoverOfQT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done all you can to try to find a reason for her anger. Is she really the kind of person you want for a friend if she acts this way. Move on to other friendships.
2007-04-28 17:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by ra63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
k well if shes a GOOD friend she would tell u what u did wrong. & she would want to talk to u & sort the problem out because its NOT worth losing a friend.
2007-04-28 17:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by blahblahyeah16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your position I would simply confront her. I would ask if I had done anything to offend her and then discuss the issue at hand.
2007-04-28 17:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by pixi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋