Have u ever regretted?

Question

Have u ever regretted letting a good friend of urs go.
I just told my friend that I need sometime alone for myself bcoz I have a lot of things on mind and she tried explaining me things in her own way but I was not satisfied. It was like I had this that I will maintain distance with her and I just wanted that at any cost.

I was thinking all negative about her and I was not sure whether I am right to think anything bad of her or is it my mind that is on fault.
Now when I made distance I am feeling like I did a mistake.
Did I make any mistake?

Answer 1

You may feel bad now, but surely if it was meant for you two to remain friends, you would still be. You're not compatible, and that is okay. This is a big world and there are lots of people in it. Don't chase after the one who is wrong for you as a friend when there are 100 who are right for you as friends.

Answer 2

I think you made a mistake in your intentions to break off the relationship. You were thinking negative things about her, which shouldnt ever be a reason for breaking off a relationship (besides abuser type situations). It is not wrong to end relationships if it is done with proper intentions. Most relationships (friendships and other) are only meant for a season so we can learn what we are supposed to from those people. It doesnt mean that the relationship with you and her wasnt supposed to end, because it might be over. Just be careful of your intentions.

Answer 3

I try not to think of it like that, because I would be eternally depressed. I too have let so many people go. Maybe try thinking of it as its better to have known them than not to have done. I no it sounds lame. I can't see it as being a mistake, I through a relationship away for saying no because of being nervous and I have been regretting it ever since. But at least I knew them. If you are so upset over it why not try getting in touch again and tell them?

Answer 4

Regretting is only natural; I regret something I've done at least once a day!

I probably regret getting into a relationship with one of my friends and things took a turn for the worst ever since.

Answer 5

yes you did, she is afterall your friend, friend's don't become distance to their friends. Especially if it didn't have a really good explanation because that could be somewhat confusing and so therefore hurtful. A true friend can be there for you in times of troubles and you should have known that about her. It's never too late though, you can say you're sorry.

Answer 6

Maybe the regret is if I made that person feel bad. Maybe I would apologize if I said anything that hurt her, but tell her I still want the time to myself.

Answer 7

You shouldn't feel guilty. Everyone needs space and a friend should understand when you need yours. Since you gave an explanation for this, you behaved very well and considerately. Not everyone is so polite.

Answer 8

Man. if she was putting u on zero and below then cut it --hav a friend foe many years that I cut because I can not feel comfortable in my own skin when she is around

Answer 9

have she ever regretted letting me go ? i used to have a best friend, more than a sister to me, when she got married, she left to another country, and we kept chatting, on day, she was on line, and i was like ( where have u been! **** u !) ,,,,,, i always talk like this to her,,, so ... i never heard from her after that for 2 years , called her millions of times, and sms her, mails, no answer wat so ever,
it turned that , her husband was on the msn, and he saw ****** u ** and he forbidden her not to talk to me again.
and till this moment, she never told me that, never explained that in an email, i knew it from a common friend, imagine! she was a sister! and for 2 years, until this moment, i got nothing from her to explain her up sense.
I just hate her now .

Answer 10

after school i lost contact with a friend i called her a lot but she never returned a call, her mum later tried to get us to go out shopping or something but i said no beause she couldnt be a good enough friend if she did not undertand.