Ok so there's this guy at skool...he's super annoying!!!I want to tell him that I dont like him..in a "nice" way.I can't stand him any more!Here's why...
-He talks a lot!
-He touches me!
-He covers my eyes,even when I tell him that I dont like it!
-He tries to flirt with me,even when I ignore him
-He is also unnatractive & distgusting
- H e takes food out of his mouth with his finger.....ewww!!
-He also bothers many other girls.
(My bff asked him if he liked me & he said yes)
-When I ask him if he likes me, he says"hell no you are ******* ugly"
- He tells my bff that I'm a "sexy *****"
Im so sick of it and HIM!
Please help me
Luv,
Andrea(P.S. I TOLD HIM LAST YEAR I WOULD NEVER LIKE HIM AND STILL DOESNT CARE!!)
2007-04-28 09:40:49 · 20 answers · asked by ♥andreaaa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People only bother you if you let them. Give him no attention and he'll get tired. It won't be fun anymore.
2007-04-28 09:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've tried nicely asking him to stop. It's time to get serious, and seriously mean.
Tell him that you never intend to give him the time of day, you are way out of his league, and that you are insulted that a guy like him would even THINK that he could have you...
It's incredibly mean, but it's the only thing that works sometimes.
If that doesn't work, it's harrassement, and you should say something to a teacher or parent.
2007-05-05 22:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Brittnee S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the truth is, I have always admired the people in my life who tell others, and especially me, the things that I could do to improve my impression on people.
Be this guys' mirror.
Tell him,
"Look, here's a couple of good things about you."
(You MUST do this, or you're being mean.)
"Here's what turns me off and I will NEVER forget these things."
"Here's what you could do to fix yourself up a little, and get plenty of attention so you don't have to bother me, and Nina, And Pinta, And Maria."
You see?
When people let others continue teir lives unaware of what they need to get straightened out, it's the least compassionate thing we can do.
"I don't want to be rude, so let me keep the best information away from this person so he can continue to ruin his whole life and self-image, without ever knowing how or why he's hurting himself."
No, you just tell him, and wish him luck with the next girl, who meets him AFTER the remodel is finished.
2007-04-28 16:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Andrea. Well to me when someone starts disturbing you and you know he is terriblely annoying you to the best is try to ignore as much as possible and also try to think that he never exist in front of you. First it is not good for him to say bad things in front of you and say good things about you to your good friends, I think he is playing dual role which is bad and good in the school it is such ungly if you take a food with your hands and besides that in front of a girl that is digusting, when he comes near to you explain to him why you hate him and he will surely be annoyed when you keep ignoring and just doesn't care for him anymore, but first talk to him and tell him that you never and also hate him then if still comes up and still disturb you try to ignore him them. Try this hope it might help you........
ALL THE BEST..........
2007-04-28 17:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are quite young, You will learn as you get older that all people have different characters and personallity's, this guy probly does like you and lots of other girls but he is just energetic and you are going to come accross alot of people that annoy you, just joke wid the dude and get on wid your ****, you have to learn to accept and b tolerant of people even if they annoyin, only way to get thriugh life withiut bein a *****.Dont judge!
2007-05-06 02:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by MadeinOz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow well sorry but i think maybe you should just tell him in person in a private place and mean it and then don't let it bother you cause in the end he is the only one who will get hurt. (p.s if he keeps touching you you might want to tell a trusted adult because you could get something on him like from a court)
2007-04-28 16:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. He sounds like a real jerk. If you have any close guy friends that could beat him up then by all means,
if he won't listen then beat it into him!
If not then, go up to him and tell him all those reasons why you don't like him. Tell him you have a boyfriend and he should go away.
2007-04-29 09:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Shrednaut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure you let him down easy and try to get your friend help you tell him that you don't like him back I know how you feel because a guy that I know likes me and I like totally hate him and he will never admit it in front of me but i'm sure he does GOOD LUCK
2007-04-28 16:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie2188279 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think you should tell him again to hop off your s*it sometimes people don't know they are being annoying to the 10,000th power, just try to tell him again; or maybe he's not such a bad guy; the eyes are a deceiving thing you know.
2007-05-06 11:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lola526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth that your not interested and you only want to be friends and if that is a problem then tell him to grow up and get over it, or tell him that your not interested but that doesn't mean that someone out there might be.
2007-04-28 16:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by GOOBER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay it on him gently like i know u like me but i am not the right girl for u. if u ask your bff to tell him u can play hard ball. if that doesn't work forget about the gently and shout your head off. I DON'T LIKE U AND NEVER WILL IF YOU WERE THE LAST PERSON ON EARTH!!!!! YOUR WEIRD, ANNOYING, DISGUSTING, RUDE, UGULY.that outta do it!
2007-04-28 16:50:21 · answer #11 · answered by pinkpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋