I haven't had sex in so long it seems like a year or a lifetime, so I guess one just does, if you stay busy enough then you don't think about it. I have had offers, but if it isn't what I want from that person what good does it do me, if I don't have anyone that I want to do it with then I don't want to do it. If I want to do it then I find someone to do it with and that is easy.
2007-04-28 10:05:13
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answered by Friend 6
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YOU KNOW MARLEINA TO START WITH YOU DO NOT MENTION whether it is a male or female so I guess it is an open question , on the both , Now you mention the word sex and to go without it for one year , Nowadays I surpose it would be easy to get sex , but if it was me I think that I would be extreamly careful. because of the A.I.D.S scare. THEY ARE A LOT OF SO CALLED EXPERTS , THAT ARE GOING AROUND SAYING USE A CONDOM , USE THIS AND THAT , and you will not catch the A.I.D.S VIRUS . TO ME I think that is a loaded answer and i do not care what anyone says , you go and have sex , with someone you did not know I wonder what % you would give of not catching A.I.D.S, My self I have not had any intermate relations with any male or female for 16 years , and it does not worry me Now do not think that I am not a normal person , I am , ? But yes of course I think about it , but their are ways that you can still enjoy sex without a partner , and yes i could go without sex as I have told you , do i care wether I have sex or not , no because I rather have my life , and enjoy that , again people think that going without sex for a year is the end of the world . Well believe me when i say it is not. Also Marlina sex is not everything is it? Now at the beginnig of this answer I mentioned sex and that you could just walk out of your front door and get it , The oneTHING I MIGHT FIND IT HARD TO KEEP TO IS HOW WOULD I not do it , ? well MARLINA I think I have a way around your question , You only mentioned in your question the word sex . And how would one go without it , WHAT you did not mention is the word called LOVE, Now I do not know anything about you , but I think if it was stright sex , then you could do without it , like I have done , But if it was Real LOVE just between you and and your own partner. That you both cared for each other , then I do not even think you yourself could go with out true love , for one whole year , SO the safe way is to do it though True Love , and this way you might come to some kind of agreement that you do not make love. For one whole year . HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND AS TO WHAT I HAVE TRYED TO SAY , AND WETHER IT HAS ANSWERED YOUR QUESTION OR NOT , , HOW about trying 1 whole year by giveing each other hugs , cuddles, kissing, or even flirting with your lover , surely you cannot say that you are breaking the year haveing sex this way , good luck and smile.
2007-04-30 01:59:58
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answered by Tranquilty 5
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It will takes a lot of your time to control your emotions and thought pattern. If you are a person who loves sex and your thoughts are not easily swayed from it, it will take some time before you can forego a length of time without sex. Think of something that you love to do that will keep your time and space occupied and away from sexual desires like, pictures, movies, sounds etc., one effective way that works for me is praying, i ask the Lord to help my emotions and thoughts to be in the right pattern and he will show you the way, it is up to you to accept it or reject it. You want to accomplish something, look at it as a challenge and challenge yourself that you can do it and once you can prove yourself strong and willing, you can do anything that you set your mind to. So give it a try. Try for one month to go without sex and if you succeed the first, you can go for the second and so on, and before you know it, you will have gone without it for a year. I pray that God will give you the strength to do what is right and be who God wants you to be.
2007-04-28 21:03:03
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answered by Dove 2
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When i was fortunate enough to study meditation phenomena in Tibet for 2 yrs i developed a deep respect for Tantric technique, and, as a result of this, and other methodology i can not only function without personal physical release i am also able to provide immense an intense pleasure to a partner.Besides, i haven't had sex in ANY form for over 5 yrs since my beloved died in an auto accident.
2007-04-28 16:45:30
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answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6
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Thinking about sex is a byproduct of hormonal and physiological drives that are pretty much beyond our control. Personally, I don't think I could STOP myself from thinking about sex, but I could go a year without it...I would just buy a really good dildo (or maybe a few!)
At least it save you the worries of STD"s, pregnancy, and interpersonal relationship drama!!!
2007-04-28 16:47:40
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answered by jenn 1
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I'm doing it right now (started 3 months ago)
It's not that difficult for me since there are far more important things on my mind to think about besides sex(and it wasn't as if i enjoyed the sexual encounters that i had in the past anyways)
2007-04-28 16:50:20
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answered by Ghanaian Princess 4
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If I wasn't able to masturbate, I wouldn't have been able to get through the 15 month stretch between partners that just ended. I'd go crazy and I know I'd end up being a total *****.
2007-04-28 17:07:43
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answered by Erin 7
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I used to be able to go for nine months in my early twenties, and I am a girl. Didn't care for getting drunk or high or taverns, so tryed to put it off---and I think, greatly sucessful for a good looking gal. Glad I'm married now though, people just drop their drawers/if single by what I apprehend.
2007-04-28 16:46:05
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answered by kim 7
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I would die if I went that long without sex!!!!
2007-04-28 16:55:25
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answered by proud_sexy_mommy 3
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You can use a banana or a cucumber...
2007-04-28 16:54:28
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answered by Anonymous
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