Recently my friend got raped,my friend and grandpa got cancer and another friend died and I dont' talk to anybody about this. I don't tell my parents nothing.My one friend see's the counciler at are school and I am wondering if I should.I think it would be nice to have someone to help me with all of this stuff.So should I?
2007-04-28 09:37:12 · 15 answers · asked by charlee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I seen her once with my friend when we told her about my friend getting raped and she asked me how thing were with me I told her all of this and she said keep a journal so I'm going to start it's just that I cry every night instead of talking to people.
2007-04-28 09:53:42 · update #1
oh honey you need someone to talk to you have a type of ptsd (post traumatic stress disorder) and it can progress into something worse talk to someone you trust and will understand I've been in your shoes and i know what you are going through it's hard and i know parents aren't always the answer but yes you should get a councilor i hope you can find a way to move on it'll be hard but it will happen with help.
2007-05-05 17:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By ALL means go an see the councelor!! Even if you dont think you have a problem or anything dealing w/ all these issues... its still NICE to just have someone to TALK to and let all of these emotions OUT!! Someone who isnt involved and can simply listen or give advice to you about how to handle all the stress and grief you are going through.
If you continue to hold it all in and talk to no one then you are setting yourself up actually HAVING problmes in the future (even if you dont now) b/c you will have bottled up all your emotions!!
Another thing that could help is starting to keep a journal and just write down everything that you are feeling!! Sometimes it simply helps to just get it all out (even if its just on paper where no one else will read it)
Good luck and I hope that you start to feel better soon!!
2007-04-28 16:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kat J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't hurt to talk to somebody about it. It can only hurt if you don't. Talking to your school counselor would probably be a good idea. Feel free as well to send me an e-mail, if you'd like help sorting things out. It's easy to think about all those things at once, which makes each thing seem so much worse. I'm more than happy to help you through any of it. My e-mail address is eckm0032@umn.edu.
Heath
2007-04-28 16:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by heath e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking to someone about your fears,concerns, worries, etc. will definitely help. Even talking to your parents is better than nothing. Sometimes it helps to get things off your chest. It's not healthy to keep it all bundled up!
2007-05-01 08:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by fruit bat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with out a doubt she the counselor!!! it doesnt hurt to talk to someone and you need to get your feeling out.. writing helps me alot!!! but talking is even better...try talking to your parents to.. the more they know they can help you... im sorry for all the pain your going through...talk to someone.. anyone.. good luck
2007-05-02 20:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by melc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is wise to speak with your counciler. You'll feel better and more calm. The counciler will definitely help you!
2007-04-28 19:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Wise One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you need to hide this shame deep inside you. Then when your older you can go on Jerry Springer.
2007-05-05 01:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will probably be very hard for you, but talk to somebody about it. not necessarily a counselor, but make sure it's someone you're comfortable with!
2007-04-28 16:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a bit made up, but if true - talk to somebody. Even somebody on this forum if you want to stay anonymous.
2007-04-28 16:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes u should! After u talk to the counselor ull feel better!!! TRUST ME!
2007-05-03 18:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋