Help - This girl accused me of stuffing my bra?

Question

This girl who I am kinda friends with accused me of stuffing my bra. I said "Your nuts" and walked away. The problem is that I do. I am like totally flat and wear a padded bra and stuff it to fill it out. What do I say if she say's somethign agian. I have no idea how she might know. I am so nervous, I pad my bra alot and woudl be humiliated if people found out. I can't just stop because I would go from like a C cup down to a small A cup. What do I do? Please give me some advice

Answer 1

I think its ok to stuff your bra if you like it, and thats very stupid and thoughtless of her to mention something like that to you.

and remember, everybody does stuff that they dont really want people to find out, eventough I think lots of people do it and they might find out you do it too.

You better stop thinking about what can you tell her back, ignore what she said and might say later and you might also want to re-think your friendship.

Answer 2

When I was is middle school, there was this one girl who always had tissue paper sticking out of her tank tops and it always appeared lumpy, I am pretty sure everyone knew she stuffed her bra but i dont know if anyone ever said anything to her about it. Maybe your friend was just trying to tell you, not by accusing, but just letting you know that it was noticable and that maybe you should stop. Some people go their whole lives with small breasts, my friend is 27 and still has an A cup. Do you really want to be known as the girl who stuffs her bra? I would go down to Victoria's Secret, get your bra size measured, get a wonder bra and leave it at that.

It is best to be comfortable and love youself and the body your in no matter what.

Answer 3

Not to burst your bubble, but you should not have lied about it in the first place. If you went from nothing to something in the matter of a few months, then people already know. Just live in the skin you are in and enjoy it. Men like breasts in all shapes and sizes. Besides, with summer coming up, your secret will be discovered anyway.

Answer 4

OK shes not true friend if she would do that but the bra stuffing then ur late nothin u can do about it if u feel computable with that then keep doing it but just try keeping it on the dl hope this helps
ps there nothin wrong with being late(youll have bigger ones then she will soon)

Answer 5

the best way to go about things is be honest with your friend. say "hey ____ about what happened the other day... i do stuff my bra. i know, and i shouldnt have called you nuts, but im really sensitive about it, and really insecure. I would really really appreciate it if we could keep all this between us." if your really genuine about it, anyone with a heart would understand. just confront her calmly and show her what a personal thing it is for you. if she tells at that point, just go with it, tell people you were just too insecure. who knows, maybe itll be liberating, and it would sure save a lot of cotton ;)

hang in there darlin, youll get there i promise... and chances are, a lot of your friends are doin it too. i know mine did.

Answer 6

Go to Victoria's Secret and get fitted for a bra. They can make the most out of very little and you may not have to stuff it at all.

Answer 7

well i think u should tell her if y'all r DAT close but if not u should ask ya mom 2 take u 2 a store that sells fake boobs and u should bye what Eva size u want but make sure that there not 2 big cuz people can tell so i suggest u get ether a C or B cup.

Answer 8

well i'm also flat myself and i too wear padded bras but i don't stuff them.wat's the use you shouldn't want too grow up too fast and if ur doin it for boys to like you it's not worth it bcuz if a boy really likes u he wouldn't like u for the size of your breasts and if she asks again just tell her yes and you do it bcause your embarassed of being flat and you should stop as well and if she's ur friend she wont tell.oh and another thing ur beautiful in your own way and don't take on wat other ppl say about you just believe in yourself and enjoy life.

Answer 9

well u shouldnt of told her about ur bra that u stuff it becuase u dont know who ur true friends are and well the only thing i can say is that someday everyone is gonna realize that u stuffed ur bra so just be urself! Its okaii to have small breasts! think about it this way... no offense to no one but when ur older ur boobs are gonna get all saggy and yucky...so be happy with ur breast and just love ur body :D

Answer 10

Stuffing a bra a little is ok, but alot is lying. Breasts aren't every thing, some guys like big butts, small butts, big boobs, no boobs, tall girls, short girls. JUST BE WHO U ARE. [downgrade slowly so nobody notices]