i was very very lucky and got pregnant my first month of trying. im 8 weeks now. i feel really guilty that i got pregnant so fast when other couples try so hard. do any of you feel guilt for getting pregnant so easily?
2007-04-28 09:09:27 · 12 answers · asked by omama 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i feel like im less deserving or something
2007-04-28 09:12:50 · update #1
We did!
I don't really feel guilty about that... my friend has tried for over 2 years ...She got married just before me to show off even though I told her LONG before already that I was getting married that day... so I'm proud to be pregnant before her.
Remember this: "You deserve it"
And ...others have their luck at different places then you...so they aren't really unlucky at all!...
Good luck!
2007-04-28 09:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant w/ my last child in less than a month. I went off the pill thinking that I'd have a month to get it out of my system, and get pregnant the following month. Nope, I got pregnant right away. No, I don't feel guilty that I got pregnant so quickly, I figure some people are just more fertile than others, and I'm a fortunate person.
2007-04-28 09:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Moody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being off the tablet for a month I acquired pregnant with my first. With my 2d I hadn't been on BC for 2 years and it took my hubby and that i close to 9 months to conceive. It all relies from man or woman to individual!
2016-08-11 05:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant without trying, while I was on the pill!!!
Now my little girl is 16 months old and I can't imagine life without her!!!!
I know what you mean about the guilt thing though.....When I got pregnant on accident, my sister-in-law and brother had been trying for 6 years without any luck......That made things quite tense between us. Happily, they now are the proud parents of twin girls too!
2007-04-28 09:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by RN_and_mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant three times this way. I don't feel guilty I feel very blessed. One of the babies was miscarried but the two I have I cherish with all my heart.
2007-04-28 09:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant one month after losing my unborn baby (6 month preg. then) in a car accident. I don't feel guilty. I think me and the father deserve another baby.
2007-04-28 09:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsay34266 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it took me 5 months which seems like forever and a day but now that i look back on it it wasn't bad at all and it just made me that much more excited and ready when i took the test. i feel blessed bc i had to wait and i just enjoyed myself while i was and did things i knew i couldn't while i was pregnant. you should feel happy that a child is coming into your life if you feel anything other than happiness something is wrong
2007-04-28 09:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got pregnant with in weeks dont feel guilty. You deserve this!
2007-04-28 09:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am one of those who weren't so lucky... i tired for a year before i got pregnant with my first child... then i got lucky the second time... i time myself so my second child would be only two year apart from my oldest.... works out great... no need to feel guilty... congrats on your baby and good luck with pregnancy....
2007-04-28 09:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband only tried a few weeks bwfore getting pregnant. i think i felt a little guilty at first. Congrats!
2007-04-28 09:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by CJ&Drewsmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋