Is it sick for a 34 year old woman to have a crush on a 22 year old boy?

Question

So what if I'm closer in age to his mother!

Answer 1

It's fine, don't worry. ;-)

Answer 2

in response to the person saying a 22 year old is not a boy... yeah he is usually. but i don't think it's sick you have a crush on him i know a lot of older women who go for younger men. depending on his maturity level is what makes it ok or not. only because the maturity level of most 22 year old males is the maturity level of say an 18 year old female (if you're lucky) it's proven on average males mature much slower than females. so you have to take that into consideration with this guy. if you just want to have fun then it doesn't really matter. but if it's a relationship you are after it will matter a great deal.

Answer 3

Definitely NOT
I lived with a wonderful man for 3 yrs
I was 31yrs at beginning and he was 20yr
We only broke off because his family made life terrible and then my father died and I had to go and help my mother.
Remember
- A man gets to his sexual peak at 20yrs
A woman gets to her sexual peak at 30yrs.
This means peak peformance for both
- peak time taken
-peak number of times possible
-peak athelitic ability for different things
-peak interest to try items like 'The Karma Sutra' - a book of positions
- the young man is probably still young enough to enjoy children
The only problem is - other moronic people
The only reasons women marry older men
- men want POWER over women (young men are not into these silly power-plays
- women' brains mature earlier so can find young men dull BUT the type of young man who is willing to try this is usually more mature any-way; in fact his less mature male friends may tease him because they are STUPID and this can be a problem. However as the couple spend a lot of time practicing with the young man's crown jewels they may find friend times reduce.
I would not have changed that wonderful experience for any-thing even if family made times hard.
He since married and divorced 3 times. Perhaps he is looking for some-thing we lost.
Go for it. Have fun and LOVE

Answer 4

At 21 years old, legally, you can stop calling him a "boy." As it is, he has legally reached drinking age, in most states. At 34, you're adult, too. As long as he is not in your immediate family, there should be nothing seen or thought of as "sick" about you having such a crush, whatsoever.

Answer 5

He's of legal age, so he's not a boy. Is this a one-sided thing, or does he feel the same way about you. A 12 year age difference is not that much.

Answer 6

You both are two consenting adults. Age is just a number. Every person has a different personailty and different maturity level. If you both have things in common and enjoy each other's company, then dont let age become a factor.

Answer 7

Not at all.. I think it's cute. Who knows, if you gues are both single....

When I was 22, rthere were a few hot 30 year old women that I wish would teach me a little something..

Answer 8

Not at all. As long as either are 21yr+. My son was 30 when he married a 41yr lady with 2 kids. Now those kids have 4 babies & my son is young enough to play with his grandkids. He is the greatest & youngest Paw-Paw ever. Go for it

Answer 9

The attraction is 100% sexual no matter what they say.
He may think he's in love. He is the BOY in this relationship. He is not mature enough to know he's too young for her.The older woman is more than likely using this guy instead of a vibrator.

Answer 10

22 years old is not a boy

Answer 11

22 isnt a boy