Circumsize decision?

Question

Im 15 and been thinking about getting circumsized. I've talked to my parents about it and they said it was up to me. I've got a few questions though. Are you awake during hte operation? How long does it take to heal? Is it really worth it? Judging from many womens opinions it seems they prefer cut men and pleasing them is all that matters. What should i do?

Answer 1

It depends where you live. If you're from Europe, Latin America, or Asia women would pretty much expect an uncircumcised penis. Here in the USA it's almost the opposite, but in some areas (especially in the west coast) there's more uncircumcised guys than before, since in some states the circumcision rate is now as low as 14%. Parents are beginning to leave their sons uncircumcised, compared to being almost completely circumcised a few decades ago. In your generation there's diversity since it's like a transition period.
http://www.cirp.org/library/statistics/USA/staterates2004/

As for cleaning, I'm sure you and I know that it shouldn't be an issue. You just slide it back and rub the head, which takes less than 10 seconds and feels good. I've never had a problem with that, nor have I had a UTI. Only 1 in 100 boys ever get those.

There's advantages and disadvantages to both. It takes a few weeks to heal. I've heard anywhere from two weeks to six weeks (fully).

Circumcision decreases pleasure and sensitivity in the long run (as more stuff rubs against the bare head), as new studies in the British Journal of Urology found. Also, over 60% of men find it difficult to masturbate after getting circumcised, probably because the gliding action (where the foreskin slides up and down) is gone, so you need to relearn to do it another way.
http://forums.govteen.com/showpost.php?p=3069995&postcount=2
http://www.circumstitions.com/Sexuality.html#sorrells

During the operation you can ask to be put to sleep; or they can numb it and you can be awake. Either way it won't be painful like for newborns. It's just the fact that you've got to leave it alone for a few weeks afterwards.
http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/9712/23/circumcision.anesthetic/

So really, you have the advantage of choosing yourself. That's what matters, right? =) Personally I'd leave it alone if all is fine, unless you've wanted to be cut. The reason I say that is because if you aren't having any problems with your foreskin (which most guys in the world don't) then you may not end up getting anything improved in the end, such as where a guy with problems would. Does that make sense? lol Just think about it throughly, though, you can't reverse this decision. =)

Answer 2

I really have a daughter yet am pregnant now and if its a boy i won't be able to circumcize. i do not follow any faith so as that did not impact my selection. Frankly, if someone is born with a nil.33 arm it really is a mistake, if each male contained in the international is born with foreskin its there for a reason. Why chop it off? to maintain him 2 minutes contained in the bathe? nicely i'm getting toe jam between my feet that I really ought to sparkling so through that good judgment we ought to continuously decrease off infant's feet. Toe jam is unhygenic. also, it desensitizes the penis and that i do not opt to interrupt my destiny son's sex existence. And besides its not reversibile so there is each probability that he might want to enhance as a lot as hate me for it. If he must be decrease as an man or woman he can. My husband is uncut and under no circumstances has any issues. He would not even bathe that a lot (lol... ew i comprehend) and he's under no circumstances had a UTI or something like that.

Answer 3

If you want to please women, definitely stay uncut: http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean/408/60750.html

Being cut will reduce your own sexual sensitivity as well. It's a really, really bad idea! And the only advantage is that you save about 5 seconds a day, which is how long it takes to pull back your foreskin in the shower and clean under it.

At 15 you may meet a some immature girls who say cut is better. But once they grow up and become women, they will realise how much better sex is with an uncut man. Once you're cut, it's gone forever, and you won't want to have sex with teen girls all your life! So don't permanently mutilate your body to satisfy the temporary preferences of a few shallow girls.

Answer 4

It completely heals in 3 or 4 weeks. Procedure is pain free but may have some discomfort afterwards. It will take some getting used to being without a foreskin but it will be much better. Yes most women do prefer a skinned pecker.

Answer 5

By what I've heard it does hurt but It's definetly worth it. I'm circumcised and proud of it. This will prevent against STDs, and you can say good bye to urinary infections and filth collecting under the ugly foreskin. Ya most people think that foreskin is ugly. Alot of woman told me they prefer cut. I think it takes a week or 2 to heal but they will tell you the exact time. So ya you should definetly get circumcised if you know what's good for you.

Answer 6

i prefer uncircumcized. i had two circumcized boyfriends before so i thought i wouldnt like an uncircumcized boyfriend but that changed when i met my current boyfriend. its just easier to pleasure and dont need any lubes. but its all up to you. also i noticed that they dont look too different when theyre hard since the foreskin slides back. i think if its not broken you should leave it alone. girls opinions can change once you have experience with one like i did, i think woman just say they prefer what theyre used to, like i did before.

Answer 7

here read this

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circumcision

click on the link

MAKE SURE U READ THE RISKS SECTION

Answer 8

Foreskin advantage.
20 good reasons against the circumcision!

1. Full penis length and circumference. The "prepuce" (foreskin) constitutes 50% or more of the skin system of the penis. If unfolded and spread flat, the average adult foreskin measures 60-90 square centimeters (10-14 square inches), or about the size of an index card. The foreskin creates a visible longer penis, especially when the foreskin extends beyond the head of the penis. Also, the double-layered tissue of the foreskin engorges with blood during erection and creates a visibly and sensually thicker shaft and glans.When the engorged foreskin retracts behind the coronal ridge of the glans, it often creates a wider and more pronounced "ridge" that many partners find especially stimulating during penetrative intercourse. The circumcised penis appears truncated and thinner than a full-sized intact penis.

2. Protection. The sleeve of tissue known as the foreskin normally covers the glans and protects it from abrasion, drying, callusing (keratinization), and environmental contaminants. The glans is intended by nature to be a protected internal organ, like the female clitoris. The effect of an exposed glans and resulting keratinization on human sexual response has never been studied. Increasing reports by circumcised men indicate that keratinization causes a loss of sexual sensation, pleasure and fulfillment.

3. Ridged bands. The inner foreskin contains bands of densely innervated, sexually responsive tissue. They constitute a primary erogenous zone of the human penis and are important for realizing the fullness and intensity of sexual response.

4. Gliding action. The foreskin is the only moving part of the penis. During any sexual activity, the foreskin and glans work in unison; their mutual interaction creates a complete sexual response. In heterosexual intercourse, the non-abrasive gliding of the penis in and out of itself within the vagina facilitates smooth and pleasurable intercourse for both partners. Without this gliding action, the corona of the circumcised penis can function as a one-way valve, dragging vaginal lubricants out into the drying air and making artificial lubricants essential for non-painful intercourse.

5. Specialized sensory tissue. In addition to the "ridged bands" mentioned above, thousands of coiled fine-touch receptors (Meissner’s corpuscles) constitute the most important sensory component of the penis. The foreskin contains branches of the dorsal nerve and between 10,000 and 20,000 specialized erotogenic nerve endings of several types, which are capable of sensing slight motion and stretch, subtle changes in temperature, and fine gradations in texture.

6. The frenulum. This is a highly nerve-laden web of tissue that tethers the inner foreskin to the underside of the glans. It is similar to the frenula found under the tongue, the upper lip and the clitoral hood (female foreskin). For many intact men, the penile frenulum is a male "G-spot" that is highly pleasurable when repeatedly stretched and relaxed during sexual activity. Depending on the surgical method used, the frenulum is partially to completely destroyed by circumcision.

7. Proper blood flow. The foreskin contains several feet of blood vessels, including the frenular artery and branches of the dorsal artery. The loss of this rich vascularization interrupts normal blood flow to the shaft and glans of the penis, damaging the natural function of the penis and altering its development.

8. Immunological defense. The soft mucosa of the inner foreskin produces plasma cells, which secrete immunoglobulin antibodies, and antibacterial and antiviral proteins, such as the pathogen-killing enzyme called lysozyme. All of the human mucosa (the linings of the mouth, eyelids, vagina, foreskin and an.us) are the body's first line of defense against disease. This benefit of the foreskin could be one possible explanation why intact men are at lower risk of chlamydia and other sexually transmitted diseases.

9. Langerhans cells. These specialized epithelial cells are a component of the immune system and may play a role in protecting the penis from sexually transmitted infections such as HIV (AIDS).

10. Proper lymph flow. The foreskin contains lymphatic vessels, which are necessary for proper lymph flow and immunological functioning.

11. Estrogen receptors. The foreskin contains estrogen receptors, whose purpose is not yet fully understood and needs further study.

12. Apocrine glands. These glands produce pheromones, nature’s invisible yet compelling signals to potential sexual partners. The effect of their absence on human sexual behavior has never been studied.

13. Sebaceous glands. The oils produced by these glands lubricate and moisturize the foreskin and glans, so that the two structures function together smoothly.

14. Dartos fascia. This is a smooth muscle sheath that underlies the scrotum, the entire penis and the tip of the foreskin. It is necessary for proper temperature regulation of the genitals (causing these structures to elongate in the heat and shrink in the cold). Approximately half of the Dartos fascia is destroyed by circumcision.

15. Natural texture and coloration of the glans. In the intact penis, the glans normally appears moist, shiney, and pinkish-red to dark purple. These visual cues often attract and excite a sexual partner. The glans of a circumcised penis is dry, rough and often light pink to bluish-gray in color.

16. Zero risk of serious infection or surgical injury. Unfortunate boys who suffer botched circumcisions lose part or all of their penis from surgical mishap or subsequent infection. They are often "sexually reassigned" by castration and "transgender surgery." They are relegated to a life of hormone therapy and are compelled to live their lives as pseudo-females, the success of which has never been fully assessed.

17. Zero risk of death from surgery. Every year boy die from the complications of circumcision, a fact that the American circumcision industry ignores, obscures, or downplays.

18. Zero risk of delayed or diminished maternal bonding. Circumcision, even if anesthesia is used, causes unavoidable operative trauma and post-operative pain that has been shown to disrupt bonding with the mother, which in turn interferes with the first developmental task of every human, that of trust (trust in human contact, in personal safety, etc).

19. Electromagnetic "cross-communication." Anecdotal reports suggest that, without the mucosa of its foreskin, the penis lacks the capacity for the subtle electromagentic energy transfer that occurs during contact between two mucous membranes (the vaginal walls and the exposed inner lining of the foreskin). Such contact contributes to the full experience of sexual pleasure. These reports deserve further scientific study.

20. The foreskin is necessary for optimal health and well-being of the male, as well as contributing to fulfillment in his sexual relationships.

Answer 9

It is no skin of my nose!