my dad states that he does not want any grand chilren he has 4 one is mine and i am pregnet is it wrong to wait till i move to tell him the last time i was pregnet he slapped me in the face I am mortified to tell him!!!
2007-04-28 05:55:48 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica C 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I wouldn't want to tell either. You are a grown woman. If he doesn't want grandchildren, his loss. Tell him he doesn't have to see his grandchildren grow up then either.
Good luck.
2007-04-28 06:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by krispeds 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl...you are 28!! He can't stop you from being pregnant!! If he doesn't want anymore grandchildren, then that's his loss!! Just wait to tell him if you don't want to do it now or if you just don't want to do it, just don't tell him!! He shouldn't be slapping you because you are pregnant!! I mean, come on, you are 28 for crying out loud!! Tell him that if he doesn't want another grandchild then that's his problem, cause I'm pretty sure he will have another before long!!! Good luck with your situation!! And you shouldn't be scared...be happy, you are fixing to bring a life into the world!! That's a beautiful thing!! Be happy during this time!!! Congrats...
2007-04-28 06:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_gal04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Dad was that upset last time, I would tell him on the phone - there is no excuse for slapping your kid in the face, let alone a full grown daughter!
Are you married? Do you live with parents? Are you self -supporting? Do you know exactly which thing made him mad? [ Having to buy more Christmas presents? ]
Tell him when you won't see him for a while, then discuss it when he calms down.- preferably with another adult present.
2007-04-28 06:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father might already know. What a mess. You are only 17. What you might want to do is to finish school. If you have or if you are not in school, look into the military. You can get in a better enviorment and be able to send money home. You can not handle this. Your brothers are older and should be stepping up, but it looks like they will not. The only way you can help your mother is if you take care of yourself.This is not your mother cheating on your father. It is your mother trying to put food on the table in a really dangerous way. Look into the military. You can learn a trade and send money home.
2016-05-20 23:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your Dad sounds like my Dad. I just had my first baby at 28 and I'm married and I was still scared to tell him about my pregnancy. Since having my baby, he's mellowed out quite a bit now thankfully. But you really shouldn't be scared. You are an adult. You don't have to let him know about it, especially if you're planning on moving out soon. Good luck to you and congratulations on your pregnancy! :)
2007-04-28 06:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are 28 he shouldn't have any say so with you having children! I wouldn't tell him until I move if he treated you that way the last time there is no telling how he might react this time...
Good luck
2007-04-28 06:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETY U ARE 28 Y ARE U AFRAID HE LOST CONTROL OF U WHEN U WERE 18 HE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE DECISIONS U MAKE U ARE A GROWN UP IM 19 AND 6 WEEKS PREGNANT I DONT LIVE AT HOME BUT IM SCARED TO TELL MY DAD NOT BECAUSE HE IS GONNA GET MAD OR WHAT EVER I DONT CARE HE HAS NOTHING TO DO WIT MY LIFE EVER SINCE I MOVED OUT BUT SCARED DAT IF I TELL HIM HE'S GONNA DENY ME SEEING MY YOUNGER SISTERS BECAUSE OF THE EXAMPLE IM TEACHING THEM HE PSYCHO
2007-04-28 07:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by VI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would wait definately but try not to stress about it too much because stress isnt good for the baby or you for that matter. I think eventually he will be understanding. You can always help getting pregnant and that is his grandchild, whether he likes it or not.
2007-04-28 06:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by kenandcat143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you want. At this age, your parents should have no control over anything in you life. Also, tell him it's too bad if he doesn't want grandchildren because it is not his decision. Furthermore, don't allow him to put his hands on you like that. If my father ever put his hands on me at this age, I'd call the police.
2007-04-28 06:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by babyquestion24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why he doesn't want your baby? Are you married or not? If yes, you don;t have to worry about that. you're already 28 and mature enough decide what you want. need some advice from parents is okay,too. Baby is a grace from God. hope it helps..
2007-04-28 06:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Azalea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if my father slapped me for being pregnant when I'm all grown up, much like you are, I'd cut him out of my life until he could mature. I wouldn't want my children around someone who was going to be aggressive enough to hit his pregnant daughter.
2007-04-28 06:04:07 · answer #11 · answered by layla983 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋