I was suppose to go to my boyfriend place today so now I've got my period Im not sure what to do now, Do I go? or what my question is , Is it bad to pay a visit when you are on your periods please help I dont know what to do. I just wish I could go but now Im scared that I will be ambarassed
2007-04-28 04:39:04 · 5 answers · asked by NUNU 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's o.k. to go visit your boyfriend, he won't know you're on your period. I assume you're just going over to hang out & not have sex.
2007-04-29 11:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on what you mean by "visit". If it just ya-ll getting together for a move, you should go. If by "visit" you mean sex, then go see him, but tell him that sexual activity is a no go for the next week since you are having your monthly. It is not good for your body to have sex while on your period, this is your bodies time to clean itself out.
If your visit is just to watch a movie, and you are to embarrassed to be there while on your cycle, you could always call him tell him you have a little stomach bug, and have a phone date. When I first started mine, I hated going out with boyfriends. (Worried about leaks, dogs sniffing places and giving my secret away, and changing pads/tampons with out them hearing or leaving behind the evidence - for the last one keep a zip lock in your purse). As you get used to it and mature you will become less sensitive about it.
If is is a case of you going over for sexual activities, I would like to make one suggestion: if you are too embarrassed to talk to him about a something as natural as your period, that maybe you are not yet ready for sexual activity.
2007-04-28 04:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by CrookedHalo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not bad to pay a visit to someone when u have periods but go only if u r comfortable spending time outside than in the comfort of ur home..there is nothing to b embarassed about. its a natural process. and if still dont wanna go call him up n tell him u r not well. im sure he wont mind if he cares..
2007-04-28 04:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by maggz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm assuming you are young so that is why you're embarrassed.. It ok sweetie.. I mean unless you are planning to have sex ( you might want to wait out on that) but otherwise I wouldn't see anything wrong with it - its part of nature - embrace it because you're going to have to deal with it for a long time. P.S. how would the bf know ur on ur period as long as u don't tell him??
2007-04-28 04:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok just go ahead and enjoy yourself a period shouldn't stop u from ur activities and i think guys by this age know what a girl has 2 go though every month. and if he doesnt know tell him whats happening if you feel comfortable with that.DON'T WORRY!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-28 04:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by NICE KID :P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋