everyone is so different and in a bad way. its like nobody has a mind of their own they just do watever the other one does. everybody has the same hairstyles dresses the same way listen to the same songs and stuff. so if you do a different hairstyle then you're crazy if you listen to the a different kind of music they'll think you're embarrassing yourself and even if your outspoken or don't have stagefright(most of them are really scared of crowds but i think it's beacuse everybody else is like that) you're really weird to them. i just don't understand how they can live like that!
2007-04-28 04:36:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Moving into a new country is very similar to entering a new world. The culture, behaviour and habits are bound to be different. Asian countries are known for the tightly-bound culture and behaviour patterns. A wise thing would have been to know everything about the place you are going to, before you begin the move.
The descripition you give seems exaggerated, and perhaps the result of your anxiety of the very new habits your presented with and also the feeling of being alone in land where no one knows you and you know nobody.
Best thing would be to try to mingle and adjust. Do not change yourself, but try to subdue certain aspects of your personality if it bothers others and causes embarrasment. It'll take time and you might be frustrated, but there is bound to be some people who probably understand and accept you the way you are. Try not to judge them and don't let yourself be judged by them either. It is just a differnent set of habits they abide by, and you seem just as unusual to them as they to you.
Wish you the very best
2007-04-28 04:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is you life experience, there is a reason why put you there, it doesn't matter what you think, you do have a purpose, or purposes in life to achieved, so be well and enjoy to the best of your capabilities without ever forgetting where you came from, I left my Country 35 years ago, family and all, and I have been in U.S., since then, and although I'm not completely happy yet, I know what Happiness is, and its exactly what I did imagine long ago, I guess this is one more human experience? That sometimes we don't get to practice in the same life time in which we learn then?, perhaps that is what is wrong in the world to day, although I truss God, solidly it will get better.< you are in my prayers>.
2007-04-28 05:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by paradiseemperatorbluepinguin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a time. Everything around you is new right now and you probably miss your country and people that you were with. I think with time you will accept people that are around you. Just be little bit more open-minded. Give them a chance to know you and they should return your favor in the same manner. You know most things work both ways.
2007-04-28 04:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by krucha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know which country in south America you are from I've lived in many I now live in Bangkok the way they drive is the same the way they view and USE family is the same the way they treat outsiders and their follow man is the same the way they view money same i perfer asia .However they are not anti american as latin america Sounds to me that your in Europe and don't know it I never want to live there again
2007-04-28 04:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't really a question, and I really don't have an answer but I can sympathize with what you are saying. In lived in Asia and that was the thing that I hated most.
The only thing that you can do is make friends with people. When they are close to you they feel safe enough to let their individuality shine through.
2007-04-28 04:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Truth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back to South America!
2007-04-28 04:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by mickjack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
humorous....that under no circumstances befell in my college in the previous. there is basically a caucasian female in my senior's 12 months yet she grow to be under no circumstances bullied or being disregarded in team disscussions. truly, her perfect pal isn't caucasian (for sure,on condition that she is the basically one in that 12 months) and she or he's extremely common. i guess you're unlucky to have subscribe to the type of school the position scholars stay away from you extremely of befriending you. through how, there is loads of eurasians in my college and they did not get discriminated or ostracised through the community scholars.
2016-11-23 12:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long your living, that's all you need. =^.^=
2007-04-28 04:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by CM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋