last night i lost my virginity and half way thru sex.. i realized that he didnt put on a condom... i asked him about it and he said it would be okay... im pretty sure he pulled out whenever he went to ***. i kept asking him and he was completely okay about it and said that he DID NOT put any sperm in me... but .... how can he be 100% sure?
2007-04-28 03:44:12 · 10 answers · asked by C1C7M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The only way to be 100% sure is to get your period when its supposed to come. haha Thats REALLY the only way to know. Even though he pulled out...there is still a chance that you could get pregnant. The pre-come (it doesn't let it write it the right way) carries sperm in it too and most guys don't know when that is coming out. Good luck and hopefully you get your period. Thats the only way to know if you are safe or not....is to get your period. Theres no other way to tell.
2007-04-28 03:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are always taking a risk of pregnancy when you have sex. No form of birth control is 100% anyways. Having sex with out any protection is a high risk because there is always some *** that slips out even before orgasm. I wouldn't get to freaked out and worry about it right now. That would be alto of stress which could cause your period to be late. Next time make sure that condom is on even if you have to put it on yourself. I would actually worry more about STDs not pregnancy. That would be the less of my worries. Good luck.
2007-04-28 10:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't be 100% sure, especially in the heat of the moment. He's just telling you that because he wants to keep having sex without thinking about consequences like pregnancy (which YOU will bear the burden of).
And you don't have to have actual intercourse to get pregnant - sometimes just coming in contact with a little sperm near your vaginal opening can do it.
I'm sorry you lost your virginity.....and like that - with a boyfriend and not a husband.
Are the two of you ready to be parents? If the answer is no, you should not have sex anymore. Guess what? If you practice abstinence you won't ever have to worry about being an unwed mother.
2007-04-28 10:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Veritas 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Even pre-ejaculate has sperm in it. My advice, take Plan-B and next time be 100% sure he has a condom on. Unless you want to get pregnant go on birth control or use condoms. Otherwise you'll end up pregnant if you continue to have sex with no protection. 1 in 4 girls gets pregnant from the pull-out method.
2007-04-28 10:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by mums_the_word 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He can't be... the only way to know for sure is if you don't have sex at all... Even if he did have a condom on... it could have had a hole in it that wasn't detected by him... I wouldn't have let him do that... especially not my first time... and it isn't his responsibility to put the condom on, you should've checked before you let him go inside of you... well... just wait and see.. hopefully he didn't ejaculate inside of you.
2007-04-28 10:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♫Mama of One♫ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hunny, sex can get your pregnant, c*m or not c*m... there's still preg-***, it only takes one sperm to get ur pregnant. He just says it'll be okay, but he actually doesn't know that honestly...don't be nieve, tell him to use a condom...even though there's still a chance w/ that or wait til marriage
2007-04-28 21:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lorelei's Mommy ( & prego) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't feel comfortable with it, and you realized he wasn't wearing a condom, you should have pushed him off you. even pre-*** has some sperm in it. you need to be careful. i mean, i don't think you're going to get pregnant or anything. but you still need to be careful. and next time you need to MAKE SURE he's wearing his little love glove~
2007-04-28 10:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by emma-me 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can get pregnant off of the pre-***. Never let a guy tell you that you'll be okay. You won't be okay when he does knock you up and laeves!
2007-04-28 10:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by cr@c@l@c@j@clynn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah he may have pulled out but there is precum and that can get you pregnet..you may wanna take a test and a morning after pill just to be sure..
good luck hunie
2007-04-28 11:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by nat~nat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't be sure, because there is a such thing as pre-***. And he can't tell when that happens.
2007-04-28 11:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by skye_lashay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋