I am now attending salsa dance classed. Now there are ten couples in this class and I have a partner. SHe is really attarctive. I am totally excited when i see her. YO ucan imagine how wxcited my penis gets when I touch her. Also she wears very revealing clothes. She wears sleeveless and short tank tops and shorts. Wwhil doing salsa, invariably I have to put my hand all over her body and most of the time i keep touching her hands, midriff and legs. I simplty cannnot control myself and my penis gets really erect. This gets very embarassing because in teh class there are lots of other people and they are seeing my penis get erect!! What do I do?
2007-04-28 01:19:57 · 7 answers · asked by baldie l 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Please also tell me if this is common in all dance classes?
2007-04-28 01:28:26 · update #1
If this is a real questions, you've got to be kidding - the last thing a good dancer thinks about during a performance is sex....if you have problems with an erection, you must not be concentrating on dancing. I suggest getting a dance belt and thinking about dancing not sex....
2007-04-28 02:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
In all types of dance, there are times when men and women have to touch each other to convey a feeling or mood. May I remind you, it is your job as the dancer to make the audience feel connected to the movement. You need to figure out how to disconnect your own feelings/passions and connect with the technique of the dance and your partner. Focus on the style of dance, NOT THE GIRL!
2007-04-28 06:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by SLC Ballet Instructor 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister used to do ballroom dancing and mentioned it a few times that she had that problem with her partners. I think you need to focus more on the dance though. When you are dancing you should not have anything but dancing in your mind.
2007-04-28 03:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by I'm a water sprite! 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The physical contact in close-embrace Argentine tango is much greater than in salsa. Here is what works for me with tango. I think you should consider the following:
1. Your dance instructor is not working you hard enough. You actually need more classes and more dance practice if there are supervised "practica" sessions available. I would say probably three hours a day would be a good minimum. Also, you should get classes that emphasize technique [something that everybody hates]. It will require you to focus on how you are moving during the dance and will enable you to have more sensitivity as to how you are actually leading a partner on the dance floor.
2. You need to get in a class environment that requires you to change partners frequently. In that manner, you are not focused on one person. Also, as a matter of acquiring the skills of dancing, you become a better dancer if you are not habituated to one dance partner. You learn how to lead by making the right moves. It will make you a better dancer if you are able to dance well with every woman in the room, regardless of whether she is tall or short, fat or thin, attractive or ugly.
3. Don't worry about being erect or having a wet spot on your trousers after a few hours on the dance floor.
4. Avoid consumption of alcohol while dancing.
2007-04-28 02:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Repeat after me: "It's JUST dancing. Nothing more." And then think about baseball.
Honestly, this is the beginner's disease. When you are dancing with the opposite sex for the first time, it can be a heady experience. Just remember that you are there to learn to dance VERTICALLY.
It's ok to be attracted to your partner. It happens to the best of us, but don't read more into the situation than is actually there. Just because your partner is wearing "revealing" clothes doesn't mean she wants you in that way.
Would you think about your mother this way if you were dancing with her? Legs and arms and midriffs are all just body parts. We all have them. Please try to separate the attraction you have for the person from the dancing. You'll only get heartbroken if you don't.
2007-04-30 04:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by empressg_1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a dance belt, that will control it
2007-04-28 04:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by balletguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont think abt it.concentrate on your dance.pretend she is JUST a normal friend
2007-04-28 04:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by &dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha... maybe you need to strap it to the inside of your leg OR just imagine you are dancing with Margeret Thatcher.
2007-04-28 01:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
dude.. uhm.. how to put this delicately,,,
you might wanna do a little 'self-maintenance' before hitting the class. clear the pipes as it were.
sounds like you haven't gotten some in a while. I feel for you, dude. maybe you should ask this girl out? idk.
2007-04-28 06:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by T.Wang! 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋