Flawed Judgment?

Question

Though I am not considering getting a girlfriend whatsoever I have encountered a lot of intellectuals who are flustered by their failure to have the girl they WANT - WANT them. Some of them are great looking guys who are leaders of famous organizations in my university - in addition to that they are held in high regard by most people because of their brilliance and leadership abilities. They are great guys,they have everything a girl could want - even money! But it seems like they always get beat up by athletic bums, party boys, and rich junkies!

I have already figured an answer to this, but I just thought there might be great ideas out there that could add to the explanation of this rather odd phenomenon.

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I only welcome well thought of answers. I will give thumbs up to great answers, while I will STRICTLY reward bad answers with a thumbs down!

Answer 1

Rich intellectuals aren't always attractive, even if physically so. I too have known plenty of guys who seemed to have it all but the girl. For the life of them they just couldn't or wouldn't have one. Whatever idea they retain about the havingness of such an individual prevents them the possession of it. But the answer lies in their ability to find interest in and be interested not interesting with their projected partner. If they solve that they can then have a girl.

Answer 2

i think often a problem, especially in youth, is to be narrow, while its great to focus on and be absorbed by what interest you,, you also must be willing to be well-rounded, explore and learn about things you really dont have an interest in,,,,, and you should be looking for a girl like that also, make a list of your qualities, both mental and spiritual (such as kindness,,,, etc),, and do the same for the girl you are interested in, what is really most important to you?

then there is developing the package, just like you would do if you were if you were presenting a new product to the consumer,,,,,, appearance, social skills,, getting out there to be seen,,,,, analyzing your target market, etc while yes it matters most the character and spirit within ,,, your outside appearance is a reflection of you also,,,,,, you should care for you mind/body/spirit,, (the well roundness)

you mention the girls that they want,,,,,,, if they have quality to offer, and are wanting girls of quality,,,,, most likely it will work out well for them,,,,

volunteer in groups that do social work, whether on campus or in the local community,,,, learn a new subject or activity,,,, whether a language, bowling,, just something you wouldnt normally do,,,,,,, you will develop yourself further, and also perhaps meet a new group of people
ps: presentation has a lot , so much, to do with it, how you present yourself,,
like your last comment here,,,,,, while you might mean you dont wish silly , frivolous answers,,,,, the way you state it comes across as judgemental,,,,,,, critical,,,,,, would make someone think "gee i dont know if my response is "good " enough,, so hence i am not going to respond

Answer 3

Intellectual snob!

Answer 4

girls like Bad Boys > simple