Why am i a nice guy ? My ex treats me like crap and i still am nice to her and treat her like a princess. I asked my ex would she get back to me she goes "right now no" so i go to her would you ever like to get with me she replied "she is not telling me" why wont she tell me ? She allways treats me as second best...allways lets me down. Forexample we was supposed to meet today and she text me yesterday and said if "we could meet sunday" i replied No because ive made plans and i aint cancelling my plans for you this time. It got to me so i swore at her said the F word because she cancels with me at the last minute all the time. So she put the fone down on me and since yesterday she wont reply to my text or answer my fone. i txt her last nite saying ill meet her at 11 like agreed. So she never got back to me and ive jsut sent her a txt saying "ive got no complaints with what happend today, am not upset just dissapointed. despite whats happend ill allways be here for u" what should i do
2007-04-27 23:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
look im sorry but ur quite scary. every question youve ever asked on here has been about getting back with your ex girlfriend and even your user name is about getting back with your ex girlfriend. has it ever dawned on you that she does not want you back and that your scaring her.
move on befre she gets an injunction put on you!!!!!
2007-04-27 23:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its because you are a nice guy! Women like that love the power- only by standing up to her will you gain her respect- she needs to know she can't call all the shots. But at the end of the day if she don't want you back theres nothing you can do. If you are that nice a guy you will meet the right kind of girl when the time is right. Find other things to do, fill your time with more interesting and absorbing things and let her see you are getting on and living your life without her. You need to be strong!
Libs
2007-04-28 00:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically...she's using you. She can see that you think very highly of her and she's loving it. The reason why she won't answer you question, "would you ever like to get with me?" is because the answer is "No...but I like having you around because you do everything for me." Do you see what I'm trying to tell you? She's keeping you hanging around waiting for an answer, she's making you feel that MAYBE there's a chance. And because you're feeling unsure, and because you're waiting for an answer, you're still around her doing everything for her and obeying her every need.
Do you really think that if she wanted to be with you she'd treat you like that? If she wanted to be with you.she would have told you already.
Trust me...she's enjoying the power over you and is loving how easily it is to manipulate you.
Don't take any offence to this...but either grow some balls and tell her to make her mind up once and for all because you're sick of her games OR just cut your losses and move on.
Remember...there's a reason you two are ex's.
2007-04-28 00:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to talk.
If she's saying "no right now", there's a chance she's not into the idea of a relationship with you, or with anyone else.. or she's seeing someone else.
Time commitments are a big thing. If its important to you and not to her, that sounds like a problem that she has to overcome. Like... keeping her word.
2007-04-28 00:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by enticingmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you say i dont know why you,d want to be willin a million miles of her she a user when something better than you pops up she takes it then when shes bored she comes to you. tell her to get knotted and find someone else to use. soon she,ll realise what a cow she is and will have no friends. get someone who treats you with respect mate you dont deserve it
2007-04-28 00:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by chris s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just leave her? she obviously doesnt want/appricate you at all.
you do all of this stuff and cancel plans and she still stabs you in the back. why keep doing this?
honestlytheres better people out there so go look
2007-04-28 00:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because jerko, you are second third fourth maybe fifth best. knock it off, you don't have to be nasty its against your nature, but you have to have some pride for heavens sake. stop it and stop it now she doesn't care about you and is a spoiled self-centered brat and knows she can walk all over you, have some respect for yourself for heavens sake. . whats wrong that you take such abuse? there is a saying: when your too good, your no good. take it from there. boy you really have me pissed off...
2007-04-28 00:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep going back for more?
What you have described is an "Abusive Relationship"
2007-04-28 00:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Goddess of Laundry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok..
3 words...
grow a backbone!
serious...
she is playing with you or something..
she did that and it is a waste of time waiting for her..
go out and explore the world...
there is the one for you...
i don't think she is "the one" for you...
sorry...
2007-04-28 00:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by syasya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has found someone else already so she is just using you just forget about her and move on with your life, she does not love you anymore.
2007-04-28 00:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by NUNU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋