I am with a guy who seems to make his friends and family hate me. Ruins my reputation, and when we are home... he is all in love and happy. He laughs at me when I'm confronting him. Even BEGS me not to leave. He is making me feel more like a screw buddy than a fiancee!!!
Lately he does things just to pick an arguement. It is driving me crazy... lol... I love a mature respectful guy. Someone who treats me well. I do things most men BEG for; still he is being silly like this. He also chooses to not say what is on his mind. I love it when a guy says what he thinks or what he needs to say.
Not sure how to take his actions. He seems sorry at times; then gets mad over stupid things. Like if I do something my own way. Yet he can do whatever he wants even while getting mad at me for the same thing! Just wanting to understand his side and not jump to conclusions. MEN... INPUT please. He is great other times.shouldn't it be always at least for the majority of the time. Especially engadged
2007-04-27 21:59:39 · 7 answers · asked by Angela C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd suggest you find someone better. He just seems like the type who wants to control you and make himself the "better" one. Don't you want an equal? Don't you want to feel good about yourself? Don't you want a guy who makes you feel wonderful about yourself? Yep...thought so...so go find a new good friend. Wish you the best.
2007-04-27 22:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't grown up yet. Men don't grow up for a long time, or forever stay children. You have to make him grow up without showing your surrounding that you are in control. Worst would be his mother finding out how controlling you are. Her words against you may be negative, and your fiance having two ears, one will listen to you, the other his mum/family.
Try to find things gently and controlling with a bit of saucy acting, so that way he can be a stupid as most men, and you can have him turned into your own wings. Good luck, i'm still trying to do this, by my own dominanting, dominary, bossy and teritorial father in law! Yours isn't as bad as mine! Believe me!
2007-04-28 05:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I am with a guy who seems to make his friends and family hate me. Ruins my reputation."
What do you want to hear? that it's ok? It's not.
Go find " a mature respectful guy. Someone who treats me well. A guy who says what he thinks or what he needs to say."
Apparently this man is not that person.
2007-04-28 06:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you said it all Honey "a screw buddy" get out of this relationship before it really goes downhill and then you may be sorry.
2007-04-28 05:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say it's time to find another guy
no one deserves to be treated like that.
if he's that bad now, imagine after marrage
2007-04-28 05:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is great at times he is the man for you.finalse and goforward.
2007-04-28 05:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by vnbmuliyala 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nobody is perfect.. if you can bear this roller coaster personality then go for it... :)
2007-04-28 05:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋