Should females wait until there married to have sex?

Question

What do yall think?

Answer 1

Women and men, in my opinion, should have sex when they truly feel they're ready to take this step. It's a huge step to take, and an expression of love and committment. I'm not a fan of casual sex, as I find that kind of sex a sign of lust and not love. But if you've talked it over seriously and both of you agree that you're mature enough, then I find that it's completely acceptable to do it even if it's before marriage.

Answer 2

should males wait till they're married to have sex?

Chould Christians wait till they're married to have sex?

Basically it depends on your own personal views. I know some friends that waited till they were married, and are very happy with that decision, I have some friends not so happy with the same decision.

I am also amoungst a larger grouo of people that have had sex before marriage, and I'm happy with that too. Marriage doesn't always hold the same sactity to people as what it used too, so the tradition associated with it is loosing its meaning too....

Do you want to have sex? If yes- go for it, If no- Don't.

I did

Answer 3

Women who value themselves try to set high moral standards... particularly in matters concerning sexuality and relationships. For women who have grown up in a conservative country where chastity is emphasized and pre-marital sex is discouraged... virginity matters a lot. But still, there are women who think that sex... whether or not in the context of marriage... is an expression of love, and they have no qualms about giving themselves physically to someone they car about.

Well, if you want to have a pre-marital sex... then don't let a conservative society judge you as immoral or unworthy. And if you want to stay virgin until you are married... then don't let your permissive friends call you boring or uninteresting. Meaning... don't allow anyone to pressure you into taking any particular course of action. You know yourself best... and you decide when and with whom to have sex or whether to have sex at all. Use your conscience and your common sense in making any decision concerning your sexuality.

Answer 4

well that's a personal choice alot of women in today's world struggle with. With all the hype put into sex, girls feel a need to try it out as an opportunity arises. they dont think of the consequences and often end up regretting it they simply let themselves get carried away by peer pressure and curiosity, however i see nothing wrong with sex before marriage as long as the right precussions are taken and the female is completely aware of what she is exposing herself to

Answer 5

Why should it be limited to females? Why shouldn't men have to wait till they are married as well? No I don't think they should HAVE to wait. I think if anyone (male or female) chooses to wait until marriage, then that should be their choice, not society's choice. But I do think if they aren't going to wait, then they should be responsible about it and use protection to not pass diseases or unwanted children.

Answer 6

As a guy I have to say no. But in reality it's up to you. There are pros and cons. Consider why you're waiting. Does it outweigh the wonders of intamacy? Would finding out your lover is not so good in bed make a difference in your marriage?

Answer 7

( Females and Males should wait until marriage to have sex )

Most of us have heard over and over all the physical risks of having sex before marriage—Aids, STDs, pregnancy, etc. We have also heard many of the spiritual ones—the Bible tells us not to, guilt, it is a sin, etc. But having sex before marriage can also affect you psychologically the rest of your life as well. (Scary!) One of the main developmental points of being an adolescent is learning how to relate properly with others. Being sexually active too early in your life ca not only mess your life up in the short run, but more significantly, in the long run as well.

Sexual activity can literally short-circuit your relationships. Too often sex can be mistaken for intimacy. Believe it or not, this is a big problem for married adults as well as for teenagers. When people don’t learn how to be intimate with one another – meaning that they can bare their souls and hearts t one another without fear – then they never really learn to be honest with themselves. Healthy, close relationships allow us a mirror in which to see ourselves. When improper sexual connection clouds this mirror, it has taken over the relationship between the two people as well as their understanding of who they are as individuals. As a result, this ability to relate to others never matures and all of our relationships are affected.

Some people resort to sex in order to avoid dealing with loneliness, low self-esteem, insecurity, fear, and other problems that will only get bigger and worse as life goes on if not death with earlier in our lives. This is why God has told us to wait until we are married. It is to make sure that we are “grown up” enough to enjoy it as He has designed it so that it can be a pleasure rather than a crutch.

Thus, if you really love the other person, you will give them the time to develop and grow up rather than short-circuit them to meet your own desires. This is also why they say, “True love waits.”

Think Twice
I am convinced that the human heart hungers for constancy. In forfeiting the sanctity of sex by casual, nondiscriminatory “making out” and “sleeping around,” we forfeit something that we cannot well do without. There is dullness, monotony, and sheer boredom in all of life when virginity and purity are no longer protected and prized. – Elisabeth Elliot

Passion is the quickest to develop, and the quickest to fade. Intimacy develops more slowly, and commitment more gradually still. – Robert Sternberg

Something God Has Promised You
Love is patient. 1 Corinthians 13:4

Answer 8

I think so and it should be easy for a woman to do since they basically are sex haters. They usually end up hating it much more after marriage. I should know been married for over 20 years.

Answer 9

no... that question should be applied individually and by no means be an absolute. i'm surprised that at this stage of human evolution people still think that questions about sexuality should be generalized. if a woman is at the age of consent, the choice to have sex is hers and hers alone. no group of people should tell anyone (unless it is to do harm to another) what they can or cannot do with their genitals.

Answer 10

Females must wait till marriage to have Sex because this is the most intimate moment on can share & gift to her Husband.