Sexually frustrated?

Question

I have a long distance girlfriend that I get to see about twice a month, and we have been together for a couple years now. At the beginning, we used to have sex all the time when we saw each other, now I feel like I almost have to beg for it. She swears she's not cheating on me, and always says I'm a great boyfriend. I feel sexually frustrated, and it makes me feel angry, and resentful, and makes me feel like I'm fuming inside. Is this normal? Should I get professional help?

Don't just say "jack off" or masturbate, if you don't have anything constructive to answer with, then don't answer the question.

Answer 1

I think you do need to talk about it to her!
It's very understandable that you are feeling this and I do not think you need professional help. You seem to have a problem in your relationship and not within yourself.
After you have talked to her, you might need to make up the balance. Is this a relationship you want? Do you feel that it gives you what you need? If not, then is it worth the price you are paying, or do you need to move on?
Take yourself serious here. You do not seem to be a sexmaniac to me.
By the way, his doesn't mean she is cheating on you. Sometimes women just have a lower sexdrive then men.

Answer 2

Id end the relationship , you are getting very little out of it and in all honesty your girlfriend would sasy the same its just romantic ''propriety thats keeping you together with certainly not a good result .
She says she is faithful to you its nieter here nor there thats ownwership again .She dosent want the guilt of being a naughty girl , thinking you will dump her and she hasnt got the heart to dump you because a relationship withoutregular sex is difficult for a man .
I think a dear John letter would be the best thing all round

Answer 3

Talk to her about it. Don't beg or accuse, just tell her how you feel. Maybe there's something in her life that's causing stress. If there are still problems, try couples therapy. It might sound silly, but there are plenty of people who are in the same situation. But seriously, and therapist that you talk to is going to have you communicate with your girlfriend. You sound like you really care about her, and it's definitely something you should try to work out. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

the two on the 2d. I even have been ill all day and that i'm annoyed that i could no longer be with my young toddlers and hubby for the a very good kind of the day. i'm sexually annoyed because of the fact in the past I have been given ill, hubby and that i've got been somewhat naughty and it did no longer pass everywhere because of the fact I ot the tummy flu!!!!! I basically wanna pull my hair out!!! ARGHH!!!!!

Answer 5

you guys should get together and talk about it. no matter how many years you have together if neither of you are happy anymore then there's no point in continuing with the relationship. Also if she knows how you feel she might be more considerate about your needs and be willing to figure sumthin out to leave u both satisfied. ;-P

Answer 6

explain to her how u feel but watch out for the come back
( IS OUR RELATION BASED ONLY ON SEX) when u tell her about it i am pretty sure she will feed u that line.if your girl lives far away i am sure u wont get to have sex when u want and if its going to be a problem for u then u need to rethink the relation ship.
good luck

Answer 7

First, don't believe her when she says shes not cheating. Drop her like it's hot and find someone that'll be there for you and you for them. It is normal to feel the way you do , but not healthy.

Answer 8

ever tried talking to her about it??