My friend has had some cool girlfriends that were fun to hang out with. He has also had some bad ones. But this one..jesus. She weighs at least 200lbs. She doesn't seem to want to socialize with other people and I want to explain to him that women shouldn't get fat until they are married and have an excuse like a kid. He is already at least 50-60lbs in the negative and they are just dating. Is this just a phase?
2007-04-27 15:54:43 · 18 answers · asked by johnny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what it is ~~~~ is none of your business.
2007-04-27 16:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty what is ur poroblem, has it ever occured to u that most people who are fat and are not that way because of medical probelms are that way because of low self esteem only made lower by people like u. I applaud him for looking at a person and not a body unlike u obviously do. Dont call her names, she doesn't socialize cuz people like u are jerks and call her names, and he's trying to be there for her. Weight is a concern for health but there are many reasons someone can be heavy, not just kids. I was always extremely fit, and I'm not heavy now, I am 5'4 and weigh 130, but when I was in sports I was always 110 or lower and in the best shape of my life, but after a soccer injury I can't run, and can't walk more than a mile w/o extreem pain. I gained, and when I gain a little weight it looks like a lot on me. I have a slow matabolism and I eat healthy, fruits, veggies, and chicken, very small portions but I can't exercise and so I look heavy and there isn't anything I can do about it. Get over yourself, and maybe consider being more like ur friend curz right now ur not a friend.
2007-04-27 16:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by p51mustang1965 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU Dont, regardless of the situation. They will learn it for themselves and you have to let them. if he still loves her why do you care... Your not the one sleeping with her. He may see something that you cant. Just ask him to hang out with you more make a mans night out and do more things together so that he can see what else is out there and you keep a friend. but don't encourage him to leave her or say she should get fat later... She could have a health problem that she doesn't even realize she has.
2007-04-27 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by amber_a_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What planet did you come from??!! It is none of your business who he dates or why!! He is not going out with any girls just to make you happy!! I get the impression you are not a very nice person!! You should just be happy he calls you a friend!! I seriously hope this is just a phase for you!!
2007-04-27 16:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lori F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An insault to her, will be an insault to him.
Did you ever ask him, why he does like her?
Maybe he just wants to help her, some people date out of sympathy.
And secondly just because she is fat dosent mean she is dumb, people are naturally tall, or naturally short, some are naturally thin, others naturally fat. It dosent mean she dosent care for herself, or dosent excersize. Some people dont eat, like they can eat only 1 apple per day and some water and they weigh over 200lbs and they wont lose weight. It dosent mean they are sick, or something is wrong with them, that is just to keep them from starvation.
Its to prevent them from starvation, its to prevent them from death.
2007-04-27 16:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend then you'll have to expect the person he is dating. Maybe he is really happy with her. Maybe he see something in her no one else does. If he loves her then it
s not your place to tell him. Though if you are just friends and he is not your best friend.. then tell him you think he should dump her.
Maybe though you shouldn't worry about who he dates..just go find a chick of your own.
2007-04-27 16:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men find big women attractive. They enjoy their curves and find them very sexy. Your friend has the right to date whoever he likes. Maybe this girl makes him feel like a king. Or maybe she just might be the best f*** he's ever had. Find something you like and get off your buddy's back.
2007-04-27 16:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by TERI Sexton 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he likes the big mamas...you shouldnt worry about it too much youre not dating her right..but if shes anti social or whatever sounds like shes a bit insecure of herself and its because of guys like you..another thing i dont know where you got the idea women can only get fat after they are married and have kids..its part of life you gain it then lose it if you choose to..sh!t happens...
2007-04-27 15:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend should ditch you. With your attitude, you will cause a MASSIVE fight with your friend and you may even lose him. Their relationship is none of your business. Perhaps you should try to get to know her. He has, and he obviously found qualities in her that he really likes.
2007-04-27 16:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by quibbly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to give your friend alot of credit for not being superficial and shallow like you are. Didn't your mother ever teach you it's what's on the inside that counts? You need to grow up.
2007-04-27 16:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
his intrest is not your intrest you can not tell no body to not like a person he may see something in her you do not see you do not judge a book by the cover inside might be realy good, so let him be let him be the judge if he wants to be with her they might not to socialize for right now and might later ----u ----might not be understanding what is hapening why he is not with you or things u\s use to do give things time
2007-04-27 16:02:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋