2007-04-27 14:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by larry c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Larry, I wish I had a good answer for you, but what helped me was prayer and taking it one day at a time. Show her how much you still love her, don't be clingy or needy, if she wants to talk then talk and I really hope she comes back home.
2007-04-27 14:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People leave for many reasons. Divorce is like death and you must mourn the loss. Then you must find a reason to live again. It sounds impossible. But miracles will be waiting to open up to you. Love yourself, accept loss, and be determined to move on. Think about how fortunate you are.
Look for the sunlight everywhere you go. And when you feel it, know that it's hope guiding you the way you need to go. If it hurts to think, don't. Stay busy and help others. What's YOUR purpose in life? Find out. But more importantly, "love the ones you're with" no matter who they are. They will be your lifeline. Take care.
2007-04-27 22:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Golightly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at life in a different perspective. It pained you when she left so she must be someone you truly love. If you really love her, set her free. She had reasons of leaving, otherwise she will keep the relationship going. Do not dwell on the past. Look ahead. Assess yourself if there are something within you that needs change. Hurt will always be there if you're holding back. Hope and pray that God will give you someone that can reciprocate your LOVE.
2007-04-27 21:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by hermecshec 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allow yourself to feel the pain of loss. Cry when you have to and find a friend that you trust to confide in.Find a hobby and find new things to do.
Time does not heal all wounds,its what you do with the time that matters.Good Luck and remember you are still as valuable as ever. God Bless you.
2007-04-27 22:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by kenneth john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing that I can suggest and that is what has been helping me. PRAYER! God is always there with you all you have to do is ask him into your heart and he will start healing it.
God bless and best wishes!
2007-04-27 22:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over someone is to find someone else, not necessarily for a relationship, maybe just sex.
2007-05-01 17:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by LINDA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only you hurtting so bad but also she hurting so bad herself.
2007-04-27 21:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by amee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to drive her away?
2007-04-27 21:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋