why or why not?
2007-04-27 14:26:29 · 57 answers · asked by ace 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No I think that is lust not love
2007-04-27 14:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I believe love at first sight exists though not everyone experiences it.
I've met people and immediately felt chemistry between us. I'm not sure what triggers the chemistry. It could be the way he looks, talks, acts...I haven't figured that one out.
I've also experienced lust at first sight and this is generally based on the way a person looks. This has happened on several occasions.
I've never fallen in love with someone the second I met them. Even with my fiance, I didn't feel that the day we met. Matter of fact, my first thought of him was that he was short! Love at first sight, in my opinion, sets people up for failure and remorse. It takes years to really fall in love with someone. My fiance and I have been together over two years and I still find new things to fall more in love with him for.
Love at first sight may exist but it's not a deep love. That only comes with time.
2007-04-27 14:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I believe in love at first sight.
Love at first sight could be lust but it's also the first attaction. There's a difference between lust and a connection. Love is kind of a chemical and spiritual reaction that some people have. For most people love at first sight can vary but most people think it's just lust.
2007-04-27 14:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to believe in love at first sight, but that turned into a disaster, so what i really think someone should do, is get to know the person and follow ur heart.
2007-04-27 14:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ali J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe what many call love at first sight is lust at first sight. One doesn't fall in or out of love instantly. No I do not believe in love at first sight.
2007-04-27 14:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there can be a spark of attraction or even an intuition about a person but that true love develops over time like a fine wine. I think that too often people confuse lust and attraction for love which is why so few relationships work out in the long term anymore.
2007-04-27 14:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in attraction at first sight love comes with knowledge about the other person.
2007-04-27 14:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by oldhippypaul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think what people have called Love at first sight is really "Lust" at first sight. To love someone is to know them and that takes time.
2007-04-27 14:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Miss T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just maybe lust at first sight. I haven't found love yet so I don't quite know what it is. That is why I don't believe in love at first sight.
2007-04-27 14:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Joi S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use too... and it can happen, but as most say, its lust! which can be a good start. Its great loving the way your mate looks. Still just a start. Men are mostly visual so I think they are more likely to fall in love at first site. I've been on a few dates where I really like (or could very easily fall in love) You can just tell if its possible if your in the right frame of mind.
2007-04-27 14:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mugleedone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a really romantic type person, so yes, I would like to believe that love at first sight can definatly happen.
2007-04-27 14:31:55 · answer #11 · answered by ~*~Starchild~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋