I think it's because they're always eating and I worry that if there's no food near them they might try and eat me!!
What can I do to overcome this fear of flab?!!
2007-04-27 14:26:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your an idiot!
2007-04-27 14:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by kim 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How do we explain this in words of one syllable so you being only a child will understand. Oh yes "get a life and grow up" think that was simple enough for you.
Never ever judge a person by what you see on the outside you dont know them why they are like they are or what has made them like that. Yes it could be plain and simple they overeat fine thats their business not yours, it could be they have medical issues again its nothing to do with you. Or they may have been a skinny person until they were put on medication by a docter which increased their size.
Some of the most intelligent fun loving and kind people I know are fat (actually wrong word really as we all have fat even you !! ) because they are not worried about always being the right weight and height etc and have far more important things to attend to, oh and health wise probably better than yours.
For the record I am fat ah what a surprise he says LOL. I wouldnt dream of eating you sounds like you dont have enough meat on your bones, on a good day I dont each much anyway! My body weight came from a hormonal problem years ago and not being treated medically in the correct way. I am clever good at my job and walk to and from work every single day I dont use cars or buses and I bet I could beat you up the three flights of stairs we have at work without be breathless.
Bet you wish you hadnt posed your question now LOL go find some fat people to talk to you may be surprised.
2007-04-28 00:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by BigMomma2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have more of a prejudiced than fear. But, then again, some people believe that prejudiced is a form of fear. So maybe you aren't off. Obese people have enough problems and crap that they have to deal with. It's not fair to them to be so harsh. They will not run up and steal your food, you are being melodramatic. If you can stop thinking so negatively, you might even befriend someone with weight problems. And then you will see the real person, not their weight. That person that you fear has the potential to be your very best friend in life. If you continue to have a prejudiced against them, you are potentially closing the door to something great.
OH, and don't be so smug. You might gain some weight someday -- and you will see what it is like to be mistreated for no good reason. Or, what if your child someday has weight issues? Then, it will be another story.
2007-04-27 14:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by January 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you've been abused by a fat person or either that, you're afraid that you shall become fat yourself.
Think about it. You have nothing to fear. You can run faster than a fat person. If THEY get the food, you can stay nice and slim and still outrun them. You win both ways.
If you've been abused by a fat person, it's a lot more difficult. You have to establish what the root cause was and what actually happened.
2007-04-27 14:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The brain is a muscle, I think you go a lot of fat there... People has the right to be as ever they want a can be without anybody can insult, diminish or outcast them, I am not sure if your mother or someone else would be fat someday for you not to speak so loud and not to be that funny, maybe you have many other issues that you can not cure with a diet.
2007-04-27 14:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is one guy at my work. When he eats his lunch I feel the need to back away. If my hands/feet were in reach I would feel in danger. He is a monster!!
I think it's just a natural fear/sense.
Don't worry about it but try not to show your fear, Your nice, tender, succulent ribs are safe for now ;)
2007-04-27 14:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well to tell you the truth although you sound a bit childish i do have a bit of a fear of fat women, it scares the life out of me when they try coming on to me in a bar how do you tell and 20 stone boucer lookin type bird you dont wanna know like if she takes offense your gonna be pickin yourself of the floor
2007-04-27 14:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by tommy6000009 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can lend you a self help video. Its called "Chunky Pyjama Party: Two Tons of Fun"
2007-04-27 19:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you really scared of fat people....or are you scared that there is a fat person inside you trying to get out. are you scared of getting fat?
2007-04-30 04:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by lilywort 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join us! Eat lots and lots and lots. Come to the fat side,Luke.
2007-04-27 14:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only way is to become fat yourself LOL
2007-05-01 07:38:08 · answer #11 · answered by Misha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋