help me???

Question

since i been to this school i being bulling and they judge before they know me and they called me names and i try to ingore it but it won't work i have been telling the teachers but all they do is tell them not do it again but they still do it after they get told off and i get really upset and it hurts my feelings and i don't know what to do please help me i really help

Answer 1

Try to act like it doesn't bother you. People who call names and bully like to see that they are getting to you. Just ignore them, they are losers who have no self-esteem.

Answer 2

I have moved a lot as well, though language was not a large problem. I know how it works that way though, some people are just like that.
1-If they call you names, remember that it is them making the mistake, not you, let it go and don't hold what they say as anything you need to bother about.
2-Ignore it inside your head as well as out, don't give any meaning or credit to anything they say against you, ignoring them on the outside is only half the battle, on the inside is the part that lets you really not care.
3-Lastly, if you can't manage it (took me a good while till I could really not care what anyone said) or they do anything beyond mean words, talk to an adult and try another if, say, your teacher won't do enough.

Stand proud and don't fight back with any angery words and it will be harder for those who bother you to feel superior, limiting what they feel is 'acceptible' behavior.

If any do anything to you aside from words..get an adult, and tell them that they won;t leave you alone, and that youy need them to help more then just telling them off. Also you could ask that your teacher doesn't connect you to the teachers new behavior.

E-mail me if you want and let me know how you are doing.
Good Luck to you!
Reft

Answer 3

Kids in school can be really cruel. :( They do things to try and fit in, and they do things to others to make themselves feel better or to 'impress' their friends. Unfortunately, these kids will never stop doing that. (Not until they grow up and mature, at least. ;-)
There are a few ways that might help, though.
One, ignore them. Flat out ignore them. Pretend as if anything they are doing to you (if it's physically bullying, definitely tell your parents, the principal, the counselors, etc. No one has the right to lay a hand on you without your consent. If they are actually tormenting you physically, a stop needs to be done about it. Those kid's parents must be told, and the teachers should not tolerate that kind of behavior in their school. So definitely, tell any and all of them. It doesn't make you a tattletale or anything like that, it's protecting yourself.) If they are verbally harrassing you, try ignoring them. Just keep your head held up high and pretend that nothing they say is bothering you. Because, honestly, a part of going to school is growing up and learning from their mistakes. And maturing. I think this is why as school progresses, the torments slow down. The kids mature, and they don't resort to doing those things anymore. So just realize, you're still in school, and not a lot of the kids have reached that maturity yet. ;-) So some are going to say a lot of unnecessary things.

The other thing, try laughing with them. Joke around with them, or make silly, sarcastic comments back. But in a good manner. Maybe by acting like you're okay with it all, and by remarking back to them in a joking manner, might have them looking up to you. Since you had the guts to stick up for yourself. Try not to say anything too insulting though, is this might get them angry. But some kids might actually think you're not so bad if you actually go along with them and let them know that what they're saying doesn't hurt you, and you are confident enough in yourself to be proud, even after all their tormenting. Just don't resort to their level of taunts. ;P

Or, another route, you can ask them, flat out, why they are picking on you. Sometimes confronting your problems head on, and asking them, politely, why they are doing such a thing, can make them think twice and feel bad about their actions. This won't happen all the time, or most of the time even, but at least you had the maturity to be the bigger person and try and solve the problem in a responsible manner, and if they don't stop their actions towards you, then at least you can walk away with knowing that you're a more mature person than them. No one deserves to be treated the way that you are, and once they grow up, they might realize that and regret what they did to you. But just keep your head up, don't feel down about yourself, and don't worry about what other people think about you. Especially your classmates. But if you're really being abused, please stand up for yourself. This doesn't mean being mean, just being straight-forward and putting your foot down.

Anyways, I hope any of the comments you received are able to help you.

Answer 4

Aww, well I would say don't be scared to tell an adult. In the end it will be better and will make the situation alirght. You might go through some pain after you tell. But after awhile they will back off. Trust me I had the same problem, and I told an adult and ever since they have never called me names.
And I know you said you have already called and told an adult, tell a different adult. Or have your parents (I know it sounds wimping to tell your parents, but whether you know it our not they are right, alot) and have them tell an adult becasue than they will make sure something happens about it.

I hope you feel better! =)

Answer 5

The best way to make it stop is either quit being such a dweeb, or next take the guy by the collar and bust his nose. Either way it will stop.

Answer 6

You should talk to your parent(s) or the school counselor. Until then, stay strong and believe in yourself.