Hi guys,
I have a few complexities and this derives from my relationship with my parents in the past.
I have felt it very difficult to find my own autonomy and power over my father as we moved country when I was 15.
When I chose my uni courses, after having successfully gained some power I chose to do a course at a uni but we were living 30 mins away. My stepdad(father to me) convinced me it would be best for me to stay at home but deep down I didn't feel it was right I still felt I needed to gain dominance over him. But I didn't feel the confidence to give that final push.
I spent the whole year feeling stuck(like being on the otherside of the river) and also gutted that I didn't move out on time. Now I have moved away to a different university, but I still have this path of moving out when I felt I needed to at the time. I feel completely fragmented and I have homosexual feelings for women and romantic feelings for guys. I still don't feel like myself. I feel like I haven't
2007-04-27 12:07:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
"conquered" what I had to conquer and it feels like a big weight in my mind. I feel a deep sense of regret and I feel locked/tangled in the past, it feels like buried unfinished business.
-~What is the cure~-?
2007-04-27 12:10:32 · update #1
Woman in need of intelligent advice. Failure of the electra complex?
2007-04-27 12:16:12 · update #2
In need of advice.
=.>moved to another country
2007-04-27 13:05:45 · update #3
I'm sorry, my dear, but this sounds like stream-of-consciousness and I really don't understand your question.
2007-04-27 12:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not particular how this can convey about an Electra complicated. would not this theory, in accordance to Freud, contain a lady sexually fascinated in her father? Claire and Quil are literally not appropriate, and Claire seems to Quil extra as an older brother really than a fatherly confirm... It does poke at an enticing question, besides the indisputable fact that. I recommend, those youthful women seem on the wolves as fathers and older brothers, then finally develop into their pals... really, you've were given me questioning. This probable is an Electra case. thanks lots...jk Now that i imagine even extra, you're perfect. All of those wolves are paternal figures in some thoughts, then do develop into pals, because the Electra complicated theory states. Huh, so not merely is it poorly written, there've also been dissimilar controversies around the e book... ~Zara Sahana
2016-12-04 23:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question I would first ask you is do you have feelings for your dad/step dad? if you do, you know that's not healthy. Are you not identifying with your mother?
you have to know that having feelings toward same sex is not unhealthy. we all have 50% our parents DNA so we can either turn out straight,bisexual or homosexual. Relax, it's okay!
2007-04-27 12:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by JESSICA G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just accept, it move on & explore who you really are by doing what you want to do now & not living in the past & feeling restricted by it. About the "homosexual feelings" explore that too, theres nothing wrong with being gay or bi. people who judge you for being gay or bi (if you find are) arn't worth dealing with, simple as that.
2007-04-27 12:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by asphyxia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk.
You need to get this out of your system. Professional help may be the best way.
2007-04-27 12:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Don't look too close! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn English first so anyone can understand your rants. Intelligent WHAT? How do you move country?
2007-04-27 12:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Is this some kind of Freudian put-on?
2007-04-27 12:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋