How to think positively?to attract people?to find apprpriate opportunities?to market my "knowledge and experience"?to improve my mental life ,in general?
2007-04-27 11:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by mman2005 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sai Ram. Pronounced as Saayee Raam, it is a greeting, a mantra and also a blessing to you.U show the intellectual aspect of your psyche and your real need to know. Happiness is the only purpose of life,.I feel as if you are tired of life so i guess your question is how to get happiness? Search deep within and try to know who you are. Who is seeking the answer to the question? Who is that you? Find that real you behind all the layers that are heaped upon by society and its conditioning.
Believe in yourself
Be brave...but it's ok to be afraid sometimes
Study hard
Give lots of kisses
Laugh often
Don't be overly concerned with your weight, it's just a number
Always try to see the glass half full
Meet new people, even if they look different to you
Remain calm, even when it seems hopeless
Take lots of naps..
Be weird whenever you have the chance
Love your friends, no matter who they are
Don't waste food
RELAX
Take an occasional risk
Try to have a little fun each day.
...it's important
Work together as a team
Share a joke with friends
Fall in love with someone..
...and say "I love you" often
Express yourself creatively
Be conscious of your appearance
Always be up for surprises
Love someone with all of your heart
Share with friends
Watch your step
It will get better
There is always someone who loves you more than you
These are the same principles I go by for my own, and the same I am teaching everybody. Always look to the positive. There is a positive in every situation, even the bad ones. They are learning experiences. Look to how you handle a bad situation, and learn from how you acted, and see how you can turn the negative into a positive next time. Every situation helps us to evolve, so every situation is good. Life is not worth wasting any moment on depression. I did for far too long, and I'll never do it again! But I don't regret my past, it has made me who I am, and I have learned a great deal about life from the way
I used to be. You can overcome anything. Nothing can stop you from enjoying life.
2007-04-27 11:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a little awkward coming from the queen of pessimism, but I'll try!
-To think positively, I'd imagine you would have to replace your old thoughts with more positive ones. For example, turn "I will never do well in English" to "I didn't do so good on one project, but I can always improve next time." There is ways to turn almost every negative statement into a more uplifting one. Just try it.
-How to attract people. This is a tough one. This sounds like an easy answer, but you have to be just have a genuine concern and interest in people. Ask them questions, pay them a compliment (if it sincere) and take small risks.
-Think about what aspects of your mental life you would like to change.. Stress relief? Less inhibited? Etc.? You can go to a bookstore/library/or online to gather information about coping techniques. This is also hard, but like everything, you have to actually want to change. Just keep practicing.
2007-04-27 11:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by January 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be hard to think positive sometimes, especially when the news we hear about everyday is bad news! Just remember the is only ONE you! Attracting people is easy, just be yourself and treat everyone the way you'd like to be treated. Try to find positive thinking in your everyday life....when you become negative (whether it is thinking negative or doing negative) always come back with something positive. You will benefit not only socially but mentally and physically. Also, if need be, find some books or web pages that help you become a more positive person.
Here are a few
http://positiveteens0.tripod.com/positivethinking/
http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2004-10-12-mind-body_x.htm
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/positive-thinking/SR00009
Hope you find success!
2007-04-27 11:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by ~MEEEOW~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will comprehend the style you experience. Been there, executed that. regardless of the reality that it became into hard I have been given faraway from the hater pull you downer. I got here to attain that the only one quite in charge for a manner crappy my life became into and how human beings dealt with me became into me. I observed that i could not exchange them, actual, yet i'd desire to and did exchange me. in case you flow into an interview with the innovations-set you at the instant are not nicely worth hiring, guess what, they're going to %. up on that. I actual have had numerous jobs i became into not experienced for yet beneficial innovations-set and the organization concept i will study to do exceedingly much something got here with the aid of in the interview and won me numerous distinctive jobs. try temp centers. you may constantly locate some thing there and who knows, you will possibly in basic terms locate some thing you like. end finding out to purchase the crap you have been fed and initiate believing in you. And maximum critically, get out of that losers living house. Crap in = crap out so get the crap out. reliable success and God bless!
2016-12-10 13:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by lunger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a day to really reflect on your goals and what you want in life. Then, come up with a plan to achieve it. Try to set weekly goals and cross them out as you take achieve them.
Don't listen to any negative talk. Just try to cancel out negative thoughts with positive ones.
2007-04-27 11:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend some time to your self, just thinking, clearing your head, and relaxing. Do some things that you know that you will enjoy.
2007-04-27 11:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by Malibu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terminate those expensive useless doggies. hee hee..
2007-04-27 11:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something you enjoy
2007-04-27 11:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋