i am married and i love to see 2 girls together in a movie,,,, i tell my husband that i want to experiance being with a woman some day, i get on very well with men,,, and woman don't seem to like me for somome reason,,, i'm very polite to woman, and curtiuse, but seeing a woman makeing out with another woman,,, drives me crazy,,,, this has bin going on 4 yrs with me,,,, i won't rest until i make it with a woman,,,, my only problem is,,, i have no guts to do something about it,,,, so what doe's that make my sexuality,,, am i guy and don't know it or am i bio
2007-04-27 11:02:42 · 20 answers · asked by versace_girl_2002 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
husband loves me thinking the way i do, he wants me 2 do what i have to do,,,, as for my spelling mistakes sometimes,,,, (tonight) i had a drink but didn't do a spell check, and i type to quick sometimes, sorry but u know who u r,,,, i gave u a bad rate, BLESS
2007-04-27 11:52:26 · update #1
It sounds pretty much like you are a human being to me. It is my belief that most people have had thoughts of being with both men and women at different time during their lives. Whether you are able to act on your feelings or not be assured that you are a human being and we, the members of the human race are both animals and social creatures.
You never said whether or not your husband was supportive of your desire or not. If he is supportive would suggest that you pick up a swingers magazine at you local porn shop or just plug the words Swinger, Sex into Google and see what you can find there.
I've been told by some people that there is no way that they could be bisexual, but I simply couldn't imagine anyone not being just a little bit bisexual. Think about it!
2007-04-27 11:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, take a minute and breathe okay? You're giving me a headache with all the typing errors. Now, as to your sexual question: It would seem to me that you're leaning towards being a bi-sexual. Their is nothing wrong with that so long as you take into consideration the fact that you are married and already in a committed relationship. As to having no guts, well you're going to have to belly up to the bar as it were and either do it or not. Yoda said it best, "Do or do not. There is NO try." Don't forget that perhaps couples counseling as well as marriage counseling would be somewhat advisable for your relationship with your husband and you. Open communication is the only way you will be able to resolve this between the two of you BEFORE you go and find a good woman for yourself!!!
2007-04-27 11:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since you haven't acted on any of your desires you are bi-curious. Remember just because it works for you in the movies - it might not have the same affect in the moment. Also, I tend to think it takes more than one or two experiences to really 'classify' a person as bi, gay or straight - that label reflects a pattern of behavior & shouldn't be applied for experimentation.
Is your husband open to the idea of you being w/a woman - if he isn't then don't do it - enjoy the movies. If he's all for it check if there is a craigs list for your community or do a web search for swingers clubs in your city. You could also check some of the 'personals' papers or your local paper for people willing or also looking to experiment. Good luck - be safe!
2007-04-27 11:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by ang_phx 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are curious. You say this has been going on for four years and you have not acted on it, have you thought of what will happen with the relationship that you are in now if you participate in the act with another woman. I think that watching the movies had made you want to feel what they were feeling and that makes you curious. IF you indulge in the act you will know then if you are bi, because you will want to continuously have a relationship with a woman, or if you want to remain straight.
2007-04-27 11:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're either bi or bi-curious. The difference is that when you're bi you are attracted to both male and female, it doesn't necessarily mean that you are attracted to them 50/50, you may like men more than women and still be bisexual. Bi-curious is when you are curious about experimenting with the same sex. It doesn't really mean that you are attracted to them emotionally, it just means that you want to try something new.
2007-04-27 12:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lonely, unhappy woman searching for the truth. Don't pretend nor deceive yourself into falling into other peoples definitions of the desire and longing in us for infinite and perfect happiness. We all have this desire, and we are all searching like a hungry pack of wolves. This desire is so strong, that somehow, we know in a place inside of us that we have hidden because it has been hurt many times, that our longings have a purpose. That they were placed in us, and that we must find reason for this longing, and find what we long for, and what we desire. And so, to hush this desire that haunts us, we put on masks, we hide ourselves, afraid to search after our desire, because we are afraid that it is nothing at all. Do not be afraid to desire that pure desire, and never settle for less than that desire was made for. That desire is not sex, that desire is not for experiences sex with others. That desire is for infinite and perfect love, truth, and beauty. If it in all of us, it must be somewhere. If it was on this earth we would have found it by now. So why do we categorize Paradise as Heaven? I wonder...
2007-04-27 11:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by joan.o.ark 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
biosexual? hm have not heard of that one in the previous. per chance you mean bisexual. And certain, I have many gay/bi/lesbian acquaintances. truly about ninety% of the folk I draw close out with are.
2016-11-28 03:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...what exactly is bio??? As in biodegradable??
Yes hun, you are bi-CURIOUS. You arent bisexual (not bio), because you havent had any experiences yet. But its obvious that u are attracted to the same sex & your curious about it.
2007-04-27 11:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to men as well as women, you're probably bisexual. You're not a guy unless you feel like a guy, and you're not a lesbian unless you're not into men.
2007-04-27 11:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ethan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt make yooh anything, your jus curious*sp* because yooh wanna kno wuh it's like tew be wif tha same sex, buh if yooh end up like'n it alot nd do it offten nd yet are still wit yuhr husband, than yuhr bi
2007-04-27 11:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Egypt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋