ok since im pregnant...and my bf wants to try anal im wondering
how bad does it hurt is there any way to ease the pain and is there any techniques to make it feel better....curious
and is it ok or can it hurt me in any other way...
2007-04-27 10:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by smurfette152004 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Use a ton of lube because there is no natural wetness there like the vagina. And tell him to go slow at first until you get used to it.
2007-04-27 10:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by brit_brit852003 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Use lots of lub so it goes in smoother, there is some pain at first so you need to tell him to go SLOW and shallow. To prepare, you could also use something small to strech out the hole and get you used to the feeling. A good way to do it is to lean over your bathroom counter facing the mirror, you can support yourself and still see your honey's face. If he's gentle nothing bad can happen, so don't worry about hurting anything.
2007-04-27 17:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ally P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jeeze! You are pregnant? You must already be uncomfortable and in pain sometimes. Why would you want to make yourself more uncomfortable and possible be bleeding for days? Thats ridiculous! You have to give birth to that child, your BF can wait until you are stitched up and healed before having sex again. And if he cant wait then hes a selfish jerk.
2007-04-27 17:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by snailysnal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have tried so many times, even with tons of lube and I CAN'T do it. My husband always wants to try it and he already has a pretty big package (even normal sex can be painful in some positions). He can only make it just about 1/4 of the way in before I start jumping. We even tried it after a night of a lot of wine and nope couldn't do it. Good luck though. Remember, if he starts to complain about it, ask him if you can try and put a lubed dildo in his "exit only".
2007-04-27 17:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can cause tearing and injury to your bowel.I'm curious why would you want to try something like this.It's not for your enjoyment but his.That seems one sided to me.In a relationship you do what is best for both,but now there's three of you.
2007-04-27 17:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by flossie mae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two have obviously had vaginal intercourse since you're pregnant, so unless your doctor or midwife has advise you to avoid sex, stay with vaginal intercourse. Unless he's very rough, or you're almost to term, it will not hurt the baby. And remember, whatever your do, if it hurts, STOP!
2007-04-27 22:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by melethana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! tell me how the baby goes! is it a boy or a girl and what are you going to name it? are you and your bf going to get married?
2007-04-27 17:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥↔♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋