how to start my life?

Question

i really need a change, i think it's enough sitting like that. i need a changing point in my life. the past is chasing me, people around me are chasing me. i don't want to commit suicide although i feel i want to. i'm lost , what shall i do. i'm gaining more failures everyday. from where, and how shall i start. i tried much different ways but all were short and hence aren't considered a start. i tried using/creating different methods for this purpose. i tried to live it one day at a time, i tried to "just move"/"just live" i tried to start by studying my accumulated lectures(collage work), i tried to concentrate on my goals/eternal life. i believe in relativity and can't accept things at face value that's why i can't concentrate at any rule of them. i have dreams that i must achieve. what shall i do? am suffering???!!!

Answer 1

I hear you. I lost my wallet with $900 in it for rent. Lost my Job. Lost my Girl Friend. Got kicked out of my apartment. And have over 4,000 dollars in bills to pay from the past. You need to make yourself into a new person. I did this. Move everything in your room. You room is where you sleep and where you start your day. Moving things changes everything and puts you one step closer to changing. Work out. Work out allot. Working out will get your stress out of you, allows you to think and makes you feel good. when you are working out think of everything that needs to be done. If it stresses you out run harder. Make goals. Make goals and plans to reach them. When you do this put it up next to the mirror in your bathroom. Look at it everyday to tell yourself what you need to do. Remind yourself what needs to be done. When you get one done cross it off. Meet new people. Bringing in new people into your life will help create new bonds and a new life. Don't just kick all the old ones out but still get rid of ones that make things hard.

I think if you do all of this you will get through it dude. I did.

Answer 2

Change is the basis of healthy living ,
No change is stagnation and mental death .

Good change is like a smooth dance ,
Bad change is chaotic like a tornado .

Seems your life has lots of change , just chaotic change.
Suggest you work on smoothing out your 'life dance '.

Do honorable work for your food , clothing & shelter .
Take time to appreciate the good parts of the planet .
Put some energy into living healthfully (clean air , clean water , clean food - avoid toxic things & people)

And once your life dance has some good sway ,
Share it with others .

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Answer 3

I will pray for you. God created you for a purpose which you might not see yet.
God be with you, and may His love prevail and be a light for you.
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." (This is from the Bible and it talks about Jesus).
Have you tried counselling or talking to a friend? Talking it out helps.
Best wishes to you.

Answer 4

You need to sit down and evaluate your life. List all of the things in your life right now that bring you down or make your life worse. Then list all of the things in your life that make you happy. Then make a list of all the things that COULD make your life better and make you happy. Take it a step at a time and slowly get rid of the things that bring you down and start adding things that make you happy.

You don't like your neighbor, then move. You don't like your job, get a new one. You don't like your car, trade it in. You don't like your sister, don't talk to her. "Out with the negative, in with the positive". You only live once, so you better enjoy it and do whats right for YOU.

Answer 5

For a start, PLEASE get "failure" out of your vocabulary and change it with "experience."
...then I look up to Jesus.
"I am the vine, you are he branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he wil bear much fruit; apart from Me you can do nothing.".... John 15:5
I'm praying for you.