I am jealous of everything my g/f does and i am constantly worrying about whether she is going to cheat on me... which she has in the past so i was wondering what other men do or woman to overcome there jealousy and easy was to get over it . thanxs
2007-04-27 07:10:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just GET OVER IT. Actually, if you worked on yourself - focusing on increasing your self confidence - you may get over these feelings.
2007-04-27 07:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Avvi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is not good in a relationship. It could lead to harmful behavior. I think that maybe you and your girlfriend still have issues about her cheating ways. In order for you to get over you jealousy you two need to tackle the issue at hand. If you can't get over it maybe then you need to move on and find someone new. There are no easy ways to get over it unless you forgive her for cheating in the first place. Think about it. I'm sure it will al work out for you.
2007-04-27 14:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your problem is insecurity. If she is giving you no good reason to be suspicious of her, then the problem lies in your own low self esteem or insecurity. You need to build up your self confidence and take the attitude, why would she want to cheat, I'm a great person! Try some self help books on improving your self esteem or a few counseling sessions. Being constantly worried about her cheating is no way to live.
2007-04-27 14:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jealousy = insecurity
I somewhere read that what jealousy shows is the degree you are likely to cheat on smb actually the more jealous you are the more insecure you feel and the more likely you are to look further...
sth along this line... think about what your relationship brings you and what you seek in a relationship ... try to work on that and see how both can meet
the meeting point should extingiush the unnecessary jealousyyyy;)
2007-04-27 14:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your feelings of jealousy stem from the fact that she has cheated before and the trust is lost. It's not jealousy, it's a lack of trust and I don't blame you for feeling that way. Face it, you won't trust her anymore, you should just get rid of her and move on with your life.
2007-04-27 14:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Delita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must really like her. i think it is some what a self confidence issue. just think how you can get along without her if she was to do something stupid. if she seems like the cheating type than why are you even dating her? but if she isn't the cheating type than just try to set up trust with her. you must have been hurt before too. i have issues trusting people too. just work on it.
2007-04-27 14:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by give me something to believe. ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just have to think positive, trust me I have really bad jealousy issues and I always think my bf is going to cheat on me but the fact of it is that if they are going to cheat then they will. you cant do anything about it so just remember if she does cheat on you then someone else out there is better for you and deserves you.
good luck!
2007-04-27 14:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by whineyviney 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you just have to get over it. I mean, you're with her, right? So you either trust her or you don't. Tell her that the past concerns you but that you love her with all your heart and you're going to trust her not to hurt you again. Then just get on with life. If she does it again, she's history. End of story.
2007-04-27 14:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has to earn her trust back! It's going to take time for your heart to heal. It's the price she has to pay for cheating! But, you need to give her the benefit of the doubt and give her a chance. Just keep your eyes open.
2007-04-27 14:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh I think maybe you should go buy your girlfriend some earrings from Tiffanys. Yeah, that should do the trick ;]
2007-04-28 19:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by Abby R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋