I'm 13 and I have a bf I think he got me pregnant.HELP?

Question

I had sex with him and I told him not to get that stuff in me this was 31/2 weeks ago ever since it happened my stomach has been hurting evryday even right now It feel like I m gonna throw up everytime I eat, I have a throw up taste everday now, my chest it stating to hurt today I'm suppose to come on my cycle on the 31 but I dont think its gonna come I took a test from the dollar store it was negative my stomach also feels empty alot and the bumps around nipples are getting big and pusie and my stomach gets bloating feeling like a ballon I cant talk to anybody my parents dont beleive in abortins I think I really messed up

thanks for the answers. I dont know what troll mean but when I come on the computer it does have my sistrs questions to i dont have any kids and she knows she is the one to tell me to ask ya hoo community because as a teenmom she left at 17 cuz of her pregnacy to those people not answering my question

Answer 1

This is going to be the fifth time i have said this today. Go to your local heath dept and GET ON PRENATAL VITAMINS. I can't stress it enough. Even if your not preg this time , if there is a chance, take them. Tehy will not hurt you and contain Folic Acid which is VITAL in the fetus' development in the forst 28 days. Please go see someone.

This is depressing me. I am going to stop answering these. I hope that you listen and get some help. Please! Do it for the baby.

Answer 2

Are you kidding me?? 13, just got first boyfriend, second time with him and wanting to have sex?? Not just no but HELL NO! What kind of parents allow for boys and girl sleepovers at your age where hormones start kicking in and anything can happen? You can get pregnant just as easy at 13 as you would if you were 21. It's illegal for you two to have sex in every state until you're at least 16 anyway. Sexual assault on a minor, statutory rape, both can come into play here if your parents or his parents ever find out. Cross dressing? What, just because you may wear jeans and a T-shirt? That's pretty standard these days for young girls. That's not cross dressing. Just have fun. Don't even think about even anything past kissing for quite awhile with boys.

Answer 3

If you are not late, you may not pregnant
Wait, if you are late, take a test again, use you first pee of the day. This is the best pee for early pregnancy.
You could have a stomach flu.
Tell you mother. You should go to an ob/gym and get tested for STD.
Trust you mom, she does not want to be a grandma yet
If you are pregnant, look into adoption. You can give you child to a loving couple
Like abortion, some people regret adoption. Some people do not.
If you not pregnant
Just because you had sex once, does not mean you have to have sex again
Please do not every have sex without an condom and spermicide. If you can add birth control from a doctor, that will be good
Trust your mom.
Good luck

Answer 4

WHOA in your last question you were talking about your b/f cheating on you basically and how can you get his attention back on you etc
so if you asked me i think this is just another way to see if you could pull off a fake pregnancy
also why would you speak to the other "women" that your "boyfriend" is cheating on you with

wake up sweety you have been sprung.....MORE THAN ONCE
in every question you have asked you have been caught out
you are 1 person not 2 so if i were you i would either start acting like the 30 year old you normally are and start writing like one atleast coz you spelling etc is shocking OR be the 13 year old you should be and stop having sex if thats what you are doing until such time as you are mature enough to deal with it


OMG you were also in another question with a girl asking if she was pregnant and you were giving her advice on taking pregnancy tests etc

Answer 5

You shouldn't be having sex to start with. And even if you told him not to get that stuff in you it wouldn't really matter, theres "prestuff" that can get you pregnant as well. (BTW love the terminology) And theres only 30 days in this month so waiting on the 31st day may cause you a little trouble! But as far as finding out what to do, you need to go to a clinic, they wont tell your parents and you will be able to be checked. Theres no reason you cant go there, and if you are pregnant they will help you find ways to tell your parents. If you arent pregnant you need to be more careful and wait till you grow up to have sex since obviously you dont know how to handle it! And with the stuff going on with your boobs, you may just have a disease or something because I'm 39.4 weeks pregnant and Ive never had that going on!

Answer 6

Well sweetie, Yeah it was a big error. And people will say dont even think about sex right now.. but thats a lil late for them to share that isn't it! I would find a planned parenthood clinic near you and have them do a test for you - and they wont contact your parents. And see what happens from there. If your arn't pregnant though you really shouldn't let your boyfriend do this until you know that you are ready. They might even be able to put you on the pill? Good luck though!

Answer 7

ITs OK. I was pregnant at 18 and know many girls in your situation. More than likely if you took a test and its negative, you should be in the clear. If it was your first time having sex this might be normal. I know after my first time i missed my period the first month, and felt "funny" for a while. I think its normal, all my friends had similar problems their first time. But if the test said its negative, you should be ok. But remember its BEST NOT TO HAVE SEX at your age, but if your going to, cuz i know what its like to be 13 and have a boyfriend, at least ALWAYS use a condom, diaphram, or even birth control.

Answer 8

WELL ISNT THIS WHAT U WANTED? YOU ARE THE SAME ONE WHO WAS ASKING A FEW WEEKS AGO HOW LONG DOES SPERM LIVE IN A WOMANS BODY... AND NOW U THINK THAT YOU MESSED UP? IF YOU ARE REALLY 13 YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS OR SOMEONE OLDER THAT CAN GET YOU SOME HELP. WE SURE DONT NEED ANOTHER STORY ON THE NEWS ABOUT SOME SCARED "LITTLE" GIRL CAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE WHO HAS DONE SOMETHING TO AN INNOCENT BABY.

Answer 9

hey hun, just want to say that you must go see your doctor. I know you will be scared in case your parents found out but the doctor CANNOT tell anyone else.

Either way you need to find out if you are pregnant, and do not have any more unsafe sex. Please remember to use condoms and if you are continuing to have an active sex life, consider the contraceptive pill, however as you know this does not protect you from sexually transmitted infections.

I hope you get this situation resolved as soon as possible and i hope for your sake it turns out you are not pregnant, let this be a lesson to ALWAYS practice safe sex.

Good luck

Answer 10

It is quite possible that you are pregnant. You need to tell your parents as soon as possible so they can get you to a doctor to confirm the pregnancy or not. Although you are very young to have sex if you decide to have sex again think twice; think back to this day; and if you go through with it use a condom. This will not only help protect you from pregnancy but also sexually transmitted diseases that could kill you. Go and tell your parents.