Why do single women look hot, and married women don't?

Question

Look at a group of 35 year old single women; typically they have long, well kept hair, they go to the gym, and they wear high heels. A similar group of 35 year old married women will have shorter hair, weigh 15 or 20 pounds more, and dress like nuns on vacation. And we wonder why the divorce rate is so high....

It is NOT the same with men... most men who are slobs after marriage were slobs before. Women get married in hopes that they will change their man afterwards, and most men get married praying that their wive WON'T change afterwords...

And OBVIOUSLY it is a generalization... DUH

I am married, and most of the married women I know are stay-at-home mom's with no excuse.

Answer 1

because a lot of women who are married think "why should i bother??? i already have a man"...they stop looking after themselves & don`t care about their appearance...of course that`s not true of all married women, but i agree with u...a lot of them just don`t care as much about taking care of themselves...

Answer 2

I am a 35 year old woman and i do have short hair , but it is well kept up and I am not 20-30 pounds over weight .. I take care of my self . I also have 2 boys .. I have a gym in my basement and work out 3 times a week . I think part of it women and men get married and feel why should I look good ( I am married) . wither you are married or not you should take care of your self. as far as high heels some of us are to tall to wear them .. the divorce rate is due to people rushing into getting married or that the feeling you have toward each other go away due to not making the other one feel sexy, needed , so once some one out side of the marriage makes that person feel good about them self and feel sexy etc.. they run .So I say you have been looking at the wrong women in the age group of 35 that are married ..you need to look closer

Answer 3

Maybe it's the crowd you are hanging out with or the place you are seeing the types you have mentioned. I've been married 43 years. After I got married I took better care of myself and looked better than ever because I wanted to please only him. When you get older things change, your health changes, I lost an adult child from a military accident, raised a grandchild, lost both set of parents, had sicknesses, etc. Yes, there are more important things than being sexy but it is still important to know what the needs of your spouse or partner is and to compromise if you have differences. We have respect for each other and are each others best friend. I've dressed like a nun on vacation and I've dressed in alluring things too, but always I dressed for him. Listen, we lived on a farm for a while. I am a city gal but I shoveled cow manure with bib overhalls on because that is the life he wanted. You do what you have to do to keep em happy. And, maybe the group of women you are looking at that aren't wearing spiked heels and short skirts are taking care of business in a different way. Do you have a gilded fortune telling ball to know what is happening in their life?

Answer 4

Hello! Not all married women are fat and unattractive! First try having kids, a job, a husband, a house, etc. Second if the husband loves his wife a few extra pounds doesn't mean anything to him. Third there is something to be said about being in mom mode and not wanting to embarrass your kids. Fourth look at most of the single women in their twenties today. Many are a little on the bigger side to start with and that's great too. Men need to get a grip on what a real woman is all about. Twiggy went out with the 70"s.

Answer 5

Because married women have something to do with their days besides look good for men. Like make dinner for their families, take care of the kids, work full time-either at home with small children or away from home, clean the house, etc. These are things the average married man doesn't help with.

BTW, look at the men with these married women-do they have washboard abs and hard bodies? Not usually! They may dress better because their job demands it, but then again, they may not.

And Shallow much??

Answer 6

I do think that is messed up but I also have to agree with you. I work at a very high class restaurant and I see that all the time. The married ones wear turtle necks in the middle of summer and the single ones wear classsy but sexy clothes. I refuse to turn into one of those women that cut all their hair off, wear "flats" (those are dress shoes without the heel), and cover myself up like I'm a nun. I definitely like to leave plenty to the imagination but come on now I gotta give my Fiance something to look at once we get married.

Answer 7

I don't believe that is always true but when it is it's probably because a married woman (I am not one) has a job, a house to care for , children and a husband to care for and doesn't have the time to take care of herself like she did when she was single. Her priorities change and God love her for it. Mothers (I am not one)are very important. As for this affecting the divorce rate. I think the hubby's need to look in the mirror. They don't look like they did when they were young and their time was their own either !

Answer 8

I wonder....
I'm 37 and I try to be attractive for my husband. I eat healthy and exercise and I think I'm pretty hot. I dress nice when I go out and wear high heels. I look around when I go to town and I see these very obese women everywhere. I think you're making a generalization because not all women are like that. But I don't understand why you wouldn't want to look nice, not just for your husband, but for yourself.
I've talked to my husband about this and we've discussed such things as legalizing prostitution, and he says that if it were legal, many men would never have sex with their own wife's, because they're so fat. I think it's important to stay in good shape and be attractive for each other. And that doesn't just mean the women....

Answer 9

its because single women are still trying to impress and get men. I think most married women feel like they dont have to present as much when they are married.....also once women start havign kids usually they start gaining a little more weight....thats just what I have noticed.....I totally agree with you tho. When my girl is 35 and we are married I still want her wearing the thongs and tight pants and everything! women just dont look good in grandma panties and big jeans.

Answer 10

First off with that question I have to assume you are single and ignorant. It may all depend on the womens life and what she has going on in it. If she has children and a job and husband (who by the way probably does not help her with the children) then she probably doesn't have time for herself because we all know that children and husband most of the time come before wife.

Answer 11

Usually women who are married feel like they no longer have to keep up their beauty routine since they already HAVE A MAN, while single women don't. However, many women who are married are still hot! You are just generalizing.