2007-04-27 05:19:44 · 19 answers · asked by 1fabdiv@ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We'll, I have not been had sex with him. He actually told me he wanted to wait, until he can come correct with me. But me being me, I looked on the public court record site and queried his name, and thus determined that no divorce had been filed.. But then on the same token, I searched my parents names (divorced) and nothing came up on them. So its really hard to decipher. I actually no longer talk with him, but I can't seem to get him out of my head. He was very encouraging spiritually and in the natural.... I can't really explain it. But we definitely didnt have any sexual contact.
2007-04-27 05:48:30 · update #1
Why do women always relate sex with married men? If this guy is good and natural then why can't you two just be friends? If he wants to pursue a relationship with sex then he needs to divorce his wife-period. There is no rule why men and women can not be friends and there is no rule why married men and single women can not be friends either. It does change if the two of you begin to become intimate - such as kisssing, hugging, petting, etc. If it goes in that direction, tell him you're not ready until the divorce is final. If he doesn't want to then chances are he's not going to get a divorce and go looking elsewhere because single women seem to love married men.
2007-04-29 03:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by noblesteed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I agree that it boils down to genetics, I don't believe anyone wakes up one day and says I'm going to be gay. A lot of gay men that marry and have children do it because they have fought it all of their lives or feared if not living the normal traditional way that they will be shunned by family,friends or society. In some cases it could be they are bi-sexual as well. My brother-inlaw, fought being gay all of his life, and never came "out" until a few years ago when it became more acceptable in society's eyes so to say. He was married to my sister who is now deceased, they had a child and he lived basically a lie. It's hard to say if my sister wouldn't of died if he would still be hiding his true self or if they would of divorced and he still come out.
2016-03-18 08:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just happened to me!!! I was involved with a married man for two years. I ended things then he pulled me back in saying he asked for a divorce. For months, I believed all of his elaborate lies about their "divorce proceedings". Then one day, I picked up the phone, called his best friend and finally confirmed there was absolutely no divorce in progress!
Everyone makes mistakes. Just please do not fall into the trap of believing his lies. Married Men that cheat will do anything to keep the affair going. He will NEVER leave his wife, it's too expensive and he'll get sex from anyone willing.
Be strong and say goodbye to him right now!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-27 05:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Scout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced twice every time i said i was getting a divorce i did it . You must be screwing around with a playa . Stop opening those legs for these guys and you not going to have that problem
2007-04-27 05:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want their cake AND eat it too
my advice to all women out there - NEVER EVER DATE a married man
if he was genuine about being available then he would be divorced already
if he is divorced then it is up to you - but don't date a married man and expect him to divorce unless you want him to do that with you one day
2007-04-27 05:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Aslan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they lie to their mistress so they can keep getting some on the side? Would a mistress really have such low self-worth that she'd stay knowing he'd never leave his wife for her? Probably not. So he strings her along, and she stupidly believes that this man, who is already lying to his wife, would actually be telling HER the truth...
2007-04-27 05:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It shouldn't matter, because another woman shouldn't be with a married man, other than his wife. Walk away, and smarten up.
2007-04-27 08:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple, Men lie to get what they want, They like excitement that a new fling gives to them. They may still be deeply in love with their wife but its the excitement that they want.
2007-04-27 05:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women try to get involved with married men???
2007-04-27 05:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They just say that to keep you around. He is not going to leave his wife for you. Stay away from him.
2007-04-27 05:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by KoKo.Licious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋