Can moms be HOT?

Question

I am 23 and I two small children which are my life. does that automaticlly mean i'm no longer "hot". I can't imagine hearing about the life of little ones is a turn on??

Answer 1

Oh my gawd...I'm 22, I have a toddler. Maybe I'm not hot. Ah well. Let's be hot together.

Answer 2

My husband's mom was hot when he was a kid. His friends used to ask to come over and play just to oogle his mom. Kids schmids, guys who are turned off by a girl with kids are no-brain one-trick ponies.

However, people who don't have kids don't get the fun of listening to kid stories. It's like going on about Joni Mitchell and James Taylor to a person who is into electronica. It just doesn't interest them. As a mom, it's important to remember that you had a life before you had kids and while they are important to you, they aren't to everyone else. You have to remember what was interesting to you before they were born and talk about those things too, otherwise you run the risk of becoming really boring and one-dimensional, like guys who talk about their 4x4s and hunting and the strip club all the live long day - zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Answer 3

Of course you can be hot. I've known quite a few hot moms and seen many other. Where do you think the term MILF came from? It may propose a problem when trying to tie a guy down as many don't want to deal with another man's kids, but that doesn't mean he thinks she's not hot. He just doesn't want the luggage associated with a single mom. But they can still be hot

Answer 4

Who said moms can't be hot.

Cher, Gwenyth Paltrow, Celine Dion, Katie Holms, Teri Hatcher, Jennifer Garner.

Hot is not about whether or not you have kids. Hot is an attitude, a state of mind. It's about taking care of yourself. Don't believe anyone who says you have to give up on yourself to be a good mom. I'm a hot 44 year old mom of 2 well-adjusted, terrific teenagers.

Answer 5

Hey, you have two children. That didn't happen by osmosis. You've obviously have someright right. I think that someone who has enough selflessness to have children and care for them is hot. Men don't want some vain sexpot who spends half her time looking at herself in the mirror. They want a woman that is able to love and care for people. Mom's ARE that. So you are that.

Answer 6

ok put your drink down cause we don't need you washing your kb or monitor

READY

i am an ummm older mother
with boobs that have gone from perky DD's to G's (gone south)
they also give east and west directions when i lay down

i have a freeken pooch that will still be around when i am dead gone and mostly bones
i have a butt that gains 4 inches on each cheek for every min i work at my dang desk

and I AM THE HOTTEST THING GOING

i get winks from men in the parking lots
guys flirt with me constantly
and my honey has a strut when we walk hand and hand or arm and arm that says YEP, YOU KNOW IT SHES ALL MINE MINE MINE

he tells me all the time i am hot and sexy but he does not count he would love me if i was bald
its the other men who prove it to me every day
i may not be a playboy bunny and i will be the first to admit it
I AM ME and I AM SEXY
that's what the mind says and the heart believes

Answer 7

I'm hot, a mom and I'm 41. Get some interests that don't involve the kids and you'll have other stuff to talk about. And you need to hang out with your gal pals once in a while.

Answer 8

Heck, yes!! I am 27 with a 7 year old and I know I'm hot!! Physically and mentally!!

Answer 9

I am mom to 3 kids 17-5 and pseudo-step mom to 4 more. I thrive on proof that I am still hot. MILF is a goal to attain and maintain

Answer 10

I still have guys come up to me all the time even though I'm carrying a baby on my hip...I don't think it makes any difference to guys whether you're a mom or not...look at Heidi Klum, she's smoking hot.

Answer 11

My wife had 2 kids when we met. I thought she was hot then. We now have 3 sons and she is still hot.